I feel neglected by my Daddy

[Guest milky-sweet]

Hi all!

 

I have a bit of a problem… I constantly feeling neglected by my Daddy. I have to beg him to spend time with me but even then, he is absent-minded and distracted. 

 

I love him to bits but it breaks my heart he ignores me and never seems to initiate us spending quality time together (lounging, spooning, goofing around etc). We have been together for 5 years and we get on very well but I just feel so unloved when he acts this way.

 

My feelings are hurt and I don't know if anyone here has experienced anything like this before but any advice will be appreciated. 

[pyonchi]

I feel the same way; my boyfriend can be ultra sweet and caring at times, but most of the time he's not really the caregiver type. I even recently stopped calling my boyfriend Daddy, since he seems to get a bit stressed when I try to engage in DDLG talk. He didn't notice a thing until I told him last night. It broke my heart, quite literally. 

The best thing to do would be to have a calm conversation about the issues. Tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels about the whole situation, etc...

[Princess-P]

Have you talked to him? Asked if there is something bothering him? Told him how his behavior makes you feel?

 

There are many reasons this could be happening but without knowing either of you I couldn't even begin to guess.

 

If your failing to communicate the problem will never be resolved. Talk to him, be grown up about it, don't place blame, start with how you feel and that will get the ball rolling.

[Guest Kitty xx]

You should really talk to him, communication is key in any relationship. You should tell him how you're feeling, try to figure out or ask if something is wrong. I really hope ever will be ok for you guys

[Lil_kitten_princess16]

It is littles job to make sure daddy is happy ☺. My daddy is gone for 1-2 months at a time and kitten can feel neglected. But if I tell daddy I'm sad, he tries to pamper his princess to make her feel loved, pretty, and amazing!!! You need to the daddy he's being neglectful and it makes his little princess sad