Help I'm scared

[Alec222]

I love my boyfriend more than anything. But he may be bi and I'm fine with that I just feel like by me being a girl he'll get bored with me and try guys and love it and fall in love with someone else. We're in a DD/Lg relationship. I just need advice because I don't think I can survive without him.

[Guest]

Hi! 

I don't think you need to worry at all! He might be bisexual, but if he is your boyfriend, it means that he's attracted to you, and being faithful has nothing to do with his sexual orientation  

 

You like men too right ? But you would not cheat on him with another guy just because you like men, so it is the same! 

 

But I think you should tell him about that, talking about your worries would allow you to feel relieved and he may also explain it all to you and reassure you, so it's a win-win!

 

Good luck~ 

[Guest DanishDaddy73]

Hi, I can give you some advice, Use what you think suits you and your situation - it's not that I'm right and we're all different people that handle our problems differently.

1: Don't stangle him - when you get afraid to lose someone, you tend to start clinging more to them, and they start feeling strangled and will push you even more away.
2: If you really love someone, give them their space, set them free. If they truely love you, they won't cheat and they'll come back and stick with you for always.

I wish you the best

 

[Guest cottoncandyheart]

I myself am bi and with my daddy and he knows that I am. Both guys and girls are around me a lot of the time, but do I want any of them? Course not, i love and respect my daddy too much to ever want someone else or cheat. He won't get bored of you, if you trust him and love him enough you'll start to believe he won't. Good luck

[Princess-P]

I wish I could reassure you that everything will be fine but I can't. If your boyfriend is just now accepting his bisexuality he may want to explore it. However this will depend on your relationship. Your young, is he young? How long have you been together? Do you have a deep meaningful connection? Trust is a very important factor here. It doesn't sound as though you trust him.

 

Maybe things will be fine, being bisexual doesn't mean you stop being attracted to someone or want to be with someone just because there are "more options".

 

All you can do is talk to your boyfriend and have faith in your relationship.if its meant to be it will be and if not then it won't.

 

A warning; if you start to act different, become one of those suspicious girls who checks phones or clings to her partner and gives them the 3rd degree all the time, then he's going to think your actually not ok with his new, budding, sexuality and that's going to cause a huge problem.

[Guest Don Pablo]

I don't think I can survive without him.

 

dat not gud

 

also it doesn't matter if bi or not, you're either a cheater or not.

[sirenaophelia]

If he loves you and your love is real and strong and you can both communicate and be strongly on the same page. He is either a cheater or not a cheater. That's it. It is kind of black and white in that sense.

 

But don't pressure him, give him some space but keep him close... be helpful, reassuring, calm, soothing... The way you talk, c onversations, talking of his feelings and etc etc etc etc..." LOL Um...

 

My Daddy is a mentor, he could help a lot better than me!

 

@sixtytwofifty

[Sixtytwofifty]

If he is open about being bi with you... I would talk to him about your fears.

 

But, do it at the right time.... not when things are going bad, or there's tension.

Mention it when things are normal, and in a good way.

 

No pressure, no fear, no animosity.

Just concern, and love.

 

Don't say words like cheat... just that his interests might change, and let him know you are there for him, just like he is for you.

 

Let it open a door to communication that might just flood in, and give you the most comfort now and in the future.

 

I think that's usually the best option.

[Guest NeedToServe]

Doesn't really make a difference how many different people he has the potential to be attracted to, being bi doesn't make him any more likely to cheat on you.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

I'm bisexual and it has never been an issue in our 10 year relationship. just because I like girls too, doesn't mean I need to sleep with them anymore than I need to sleep with other men.