suck a binkie in public?

[Patches23]

I've worn my collar in public. But never used my binkie... Would you?

[Princess-Peach]

[xDisturbedWolfx]

Nope proudly not ......

[sirenaophelia]

I have! I went to the grocery store with it today. I'm sure I got odd looks but... I do paci or no paci.

 

My hair is multiple vibrant colors... I have self harm scars... I'm covered in tattoos (not literally I just have several), and a lip piercing...

 

So yeah, I attract attention. I try to just let it go. But... how much more staring could I possibly get with a paci? LOL

[Kittenbec]

I've worn my binky to school

 

When people I didnt normally talk to asked why I had it I told them it was a distraction to keep me from biting my nails

[sirenaophelia]

^ That's a very good idea.

 

I was in psych ward a few months ago... I asked if I could have my paci... That it;s therapeutic to me and calms me down a lot...But they said no because of "the hard plastic"...

 

Toothbrushes, yes. Combs, yes. Things you can easily make into a weapon yes...

 

But not a paci. >.>

[BH_Bambi]

I never would, because it'd be exposing someone to a kink/lifestyle that they're not consenting to.

The closest I'd get might be using it in the car.

[pyonchi]

Not really, no. ; v ;

 

I wouldn't want people to witness my little side; it's kind of my safe place, and I don't want anyone IRL to feel aggressed or disturbed by my lifestyle. Not only is it none of their buisiness, but I also know I would feel pretty disturbed if I knew nothing about petplay or DDLG and saw people wallking their S/O on a leash, or wearing kiddie's clothes and sucking a paci. I also wouldn't want it to affect my work life.

 I am also naturally very shy / anxious and don't want anyone I don't know to look at me, so I usually wear clothes that make me look like an "average" person. I don't feel comfortable wearing any kind of collars or ears outside, either. ♥

[starrygirl]

I cheat by using ring pops lol

 

But I wouldn't use a real one in public cuz it's not fair to everyone around who isn't part of ddlg and didn't ask to be involved. Plus it would be awkward and embarrassing

Edited July 6, 2016 by starrygirl

[sirenaophelia]

I guess I'm sort of an outlaw...

 

I want my paci in certain situations... It replace cigarettes for me. I've always found comfort in smoking... since I've started... especially when anxious, emotional or restless and stress and such... I had a situation today I took it out of my bag, it was in my car, I was in my car.... and I used it for a bit... It cuts down on my smoking by far...

 

But I wouldn't go walk through the grocery store or anything. The most public I've been was walking around my apartments with it.

 

I'm used to being an "oddity" anyway and being "ogled" .... I mean, I have a lot of stuff that makes people look at me weird and give me dirty looks anyway. I have tons of self harm scars, 16 or more tattoos including a heart on my cheek and most of them are visible especially during spring and summer and part of autumn. My hair, again, attracts those stares... It's multi colored. Like... bright, brilliant, vivid coloring. My clothing choices. I'm a plus size girl but I wear the clothes that are freeing to me. I get them from plus size stores, of course, but it's always...

 

Well, for example.I have this bright yellow tank top with a tiger face on the front and the back looks like Freddy Kreuger slashed it with his scissor hand. Seriously. I get stares on that. "Fat girl shouldn't be wearing a shirt like that" kind of looks. So I dunno.. I already kind of force my lifestyle to be in everyone's eyes anyway... Disapproval, judgments, etc.... I'm used to it.

 

And when I was inpatient this year I asked if I could have my paci.... they said no because of the "hard plastic" so I sucked my thumb instead. I also have the tendency to rock back and forth wildly. Whether in my home or in a restaurant, I will rock. I have such bad anxiety.

 

I kind of feel I am already that wacko... what harm is my paci going to do? At least it covers up my lip ring! But I do live in Dallas and Dallas has a huge "weird" scene... I've seen people worse than me, you know? I dunno... like I'm kinda torn about this. :/

[Hard_bass_huskiee]

I has a light up one i wore at a few raves but its an accepted thing. I just ordered an adult one i dont think id use it in public possibly when driving though

[sirenaophelia]

Where did you get a light up one?!?!

 

I'm so envious!!!!!

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I used mine a couple of times while driving when I first got it, and I'd like to use it in public, but only out with Daddy, which I can't do atm anyway because Daddy and I are long distance Edited July 9, 2016 by Dumbledork'sPrincess