Shy around daddy?

[Princess-Peach]

Hi peeps,

 

I've been heavily into this lifestyle for about two years but as of late I can't seem to get into little space when around my boyfriend. This is especially strange because I used to be able to around him.

He's into it too but doesn't exactly encourage or nurture my little side.

 

Any ideas of how to feel more comfortable?

[sirenaophelia]

I'm shy just in general around Daddy. I blush and get bashful when it comes to saying things I want... sexual or otherwise... Telling him things sexually... I'm just generally really shy... But he's patient with me and he finds it cute.

 

I think your little side is still there, you just have to communicate to your partner how you are feeling. It's hard, trust me, it's easier said than done...but as I learned from my Daddy, communication is soooooooooo very important!!!

[hislg14]

I joined the bdsm community before my Daddy did and I realized I was little in the time. When I finally voiced my needs and thoughts and opened up to him he embraced them. I was really surprised but I have to say it took a long time and I hid it from him for a long while. It is hard cause for me I'm at most vurnerable. 

I say just talk to him....bring it up litlle by little. showing him things to read and asking questions to see where his mindset is.

 

And yes communication is soo important.