sirenaophelia Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 Do any of yall have an issue or not have an issue with going out in public pacis, sippy cups, blankies, stuffies... anything that is involved in your DD/lg relationship selves. I've started going out with my sippy cup and pacis...I still hide it from my family because I feel they won't understand one single bit... They'd have me locked up in state mental facility , for serious. But I love this part of my life. I don't want it to go away. I want to embrace it more and live it more and more outward than I had. I've started collecting pacis.. I have one sippy cup but plan on more... I have "littleclothes"/"fashion" outfits and pieces and such...I don't feel ashamed, I feel happy and proud... especially when Daddy holds my hand and looks at me in the way he does that soothes me... When I have freak outs (severe mental illness issues I have but not defining me) Daddy always always always tries to comfort me by having me look him in the eyes, grounding me.. He doesn't mind me going in public with my little sides...it's almost like multiple personalities with me but not quite, obviously not the real illness but in a way feeling that way. But over the past few months, I've been more outward about DD/lg and my participation. I surprised Daddy the first time I left the house with my paci. These things help my anxiety, though.I feel as if I have these things I can be comforted and not scared of anything... And if I don't have them, Daddy always always always tries to calmm me and soothe me if I'm upset or scared or anything! He holds my hand and it feels so good.But it feels good to go out with my paci... It's likeasecurity thing... Anyone else?
Rissy Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 I know what you mean! I don't really take anything blatantly little in public with me, but my friends who know about me sometimes hold my hand or ruffle my hair when we're out. It's kind of embarrassing, but I know most people wouldn't really suspect anything because of it, and it is really comforting.
sirenaophelia Posted July 4, 2016 Author Report Posted July 4, 2016 Awww... well that's good! I only have one friend... She doesn't understand nor want to try ... it's none of her business she says. I mean some things she doesn't mind hearing but she just... don't get it. :/
Sixtytwofifty Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 My only issue, as I have told you, is curious and confused children. So many conflicts there to go into right now, but either way, they will always be confused to some degree. I say respect them as much as possible, for who they are, by not flaunting it too much in those circumstances...., and be free to be yourself. Parents, or other so-called-adults, will understand or not, have their own feelings and explanations, and be haters or not, no matter what we do. Kisses little one!
♡ Death Grips ♡ Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 To display my littleness, I like to go out in pink/child-like clothing.My Daddy even sometimes helps me pick out outfits and buys me cute stuff. I also enjoy mixing up my BDSM wear (chokers, thigh highs) with my little wear (frilly skirts, dresses, etc.) so it just looks like I have odd fashion taste. People still look at me, but they don't look at me because they think I'm a little. I just look a bit odd in public. Maybe, if you're into that, you could try using your fashion sense to display yourself as a little. Annie
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 Annie, that's awesome!!! I've been getting into babydoll like summer dresses to express my little... Otherwise I love my thigh high and knee high socks and jean shorts and cute tops.. but I don't have a lot of anything... By the end of 2015 I had lost... 100+ pounds... And I'm on a fixed income (social security disability) AND i'm plus size despite the weight loss. I'm a big 18/small 20 US sizing... So finding "little" clothes is hard. I can hardly afford them... And I hardly have ANY clothes that fit me right now because of weight loss. It's tough. It's a good idea though!!! I will be trying to find more!!! 1
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 I have had extensive dental work that wasn't a very good experience so I have a bit of an Obsessive Compulsive thing with my teeth and can't stand the feeling of having non organic things in my mouth - So no Pacis or sippys for me. I have a water bottle that is ridiculously glittery that says "Princess" that I carry around - It was pretty clearly made for a child but I really could care less what the 'Nillas think of me. I do however have my Toothless (Im obsessed with all things How to Train your Dragon) stuffy in Daddys car, I always have nutty putty or playdoh in my backpack, I always have crayons or markers in my backpack and my personality - I am pretty child like all the time. I am always kinda in my Little Space. I clap my hands when I get excited, I Squee, I pout, I swing my feet from high seats, I hum, I flip out over cute stuff "OMG ITS SO FLUFFY!!!!!" and Daddy just thinks it's funny. Usually gives me the "daddy look" and gives me a "Alright, Princess - Reel her in" Most of my Collars are the pleated, girly, bow and glitter type so Most people just think they're a Fashion statement. I always have Bows on somewhere, whether in my hair or whatever. Most the younglings in my town just think I am fun.. Their parents probably think I am a few fries short of a Happy Meal. I think I am awesome! I would tell anyone to make it their own. If you wanna be Little in public there are lots of ways to do it without going overboard 1
Princess-P Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 I don't use sippy cups or pacifiers. Just not my style. However there are always signs of my littleness in public. I don't curb my personality based on where I am. In public I often wear my cute headbands or bows, I have a replica of my stuffy as a key chain, I have an overly exuberant personality. I do not however go out of my way to rub my lifestyle in people's faces. I do not jump up and down and call my partner Daddy or do anything that might make the people around me uncomfortable. Its just common decency. I don't think you should ever have to hide who you are from anyone, however there is such a thing as TMI. If you think anything you are doing or want to do may make the people around you feel uncomfortable then don't do it. This goes for kink or vanilla or really just any kind of behavior. I don't like seeing couples making out and groaping each other in public. if its not respectful to the public place you are in then dont do it. 3
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 Dolly, that is a truly awesome response!! I do a lot of the same things... LOL.... When we go to anywhere together, Daddy sometimes loses me or he has to drag me off from all the cute shiny stuffie omg i want want want!!!! stuff.. LOL
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 I don't call Daddy "daddy" in public lol Thats a big No No. It's Nick in Public. I totally agree that theres a line. There was a vid on Youtube a while back about a girl who seen a DDlg couple that were acting super inappropriate in the Disney Store of all places - Thats just grimy and icky. It's all good to be yourself but yes.. Don't be a creep about it. 1
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 Also, Mermaid - I dunno if you have it in the States but theres a store here called "Ardenes" that sells some of the cutest stuff I have ever seen. I am also a plus size gal and I have gotten some incredible stuff there! They even have kitty ears!
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 I will look for Ardenes!!! My Daddy is 51, I'm 29... Our drastic age difference does confuse people most often when we kiss in public, etc. I call him Daddy but quietly.. But if I'm lost or being more outspoken... I call him by his name or have him paged to find me using his real name, of course. We love each other beyond DD/lg and BDSM... we have a very strong bond and relationship... and he is quite experienced so he does lead me. Which is good. I need it! Or it'd be Daddy this Daddy that everywhere... I call him my lover, my boyfriend, my fiancee, my husband (we're not married yet but to us.... it fits) We never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable... But we're both alternative "dark goth" lifestyle/fashion LOL... him with all his black and beard and boots and skulls and me with all my .... craziness. Daddy will agree. LOL
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 Me and Daddy are both pretty avid gamers. Sometimes when we are on Voice Coms with the rest of our Raid teams or whatever occasionally I'll slip and refer to him as Daddy but our friends all know and they are all super accepting. They tease now tho.. If i swear or something its usually "Imma tell yo daddy" lol
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 LOL!!! I have a 360... I wanna game with Daddy but we just haven't. We watch a lot of movies... I made him sit through several episodes of Invader Zim LOL... I loved/still love that show!!!!!
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 My ringtone is the Doom Song. Doomy Dolly of Doom <3 Love me some GIR
Sixtytwofifty Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 Is it GIR, or Grrrrrr ...lol I must admit Zim was funny, and even in binge form, much more Daddy-friendly than say, little frozen mermaids of narnia!
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 LOL DADDY!!!! You would watch anything I put on I know you... Don't pretend... I love GIR... He makes the show that much better to me! LOL
neko Posted July 5, 2016 Report Posted July 5, 2016 I display my littleness by wearing super cute dresses that Daddy has bought me and once in a while taking one of my stuffies grocery shopping
sirenaophelia Posted July 5, 2016 Author Report Posted July 5, 2016 Awwws! I want more little flimsy whimsical beautiful little type dress things... I only have a few things just a few,,, I need to collect more.
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