Guest bxbygirl.Snow Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 Hi! I'm Snow! I have a bit of a problem.. I love my daddy more than anything but something I don't love is when he kisses my neck.. I have PTSD so it's kind of triggering.. I'm really bad at communicating when something is wrong.. I just get so anxious! How can I explain it to him.. Please any suggestions of any kind are welcome!
BH_Bambi Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 I know communication is hard, but sometimes, it's the only way to solve a problem! Don't make it a big thing. Maybe go for a "I don't really like it when you kiss my neck, but when you stroke my back I go wild!", or whatever is true for you. If it's easier, text or email him to let him know. If you try that, though, be prepared for it to come up in verbal conversation later on. Good luck! 1
Ronin8510 Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 Or open with the thing you like and then say what you don't like. Communication is tricky but if your "strategic" about it it becomes easier to get what you want without hurting the others feelings/ego
BH_Bambi Posted July 4, 2016 Report Posted July 4, 2016 Oh, another idea could be to ask him if there's anything he'd prefer you stop doing, also. It will be equal, then, and you'll both be happier!
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