My boyfriend/ daddy just left me, what do I do with my little?

[Guest Lonelylittlekitten]

Hey littles,

 

My daddy/ boyfriend just broke up with me because things weren't going right. We had a joint account on here so I had to make a new one.. Most of what we did was little and daddy and I loved him more than anything, I'm so heartbroken, I just don't know what to do with my little... She's just as heart broken but when I go into little space it hurts and I've tried distracting myself while in little space but everything reminds me of him. It hurts more than anything and I just want to be able to be in little space on my own without being upset, I just want to be little again. Being little is me and I feel so so so lost without it... Any ideas or advice on how to help me?

 

Thank you all so much❤️

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

You're a Little whether you have a Caregiver or not. Its part of who you are! Your former daddy didn't give that to you so he cant take that away from you. If being in Little Space hurts you because it all reminds you of him... change some stuff around in there. Get some new stuffies, buy a pretty new Paci, some fluffy pink jammies with the Feets on them! Try to remember things you enjoyed that DIDNT have his presence in them. It hurts because it's fresh but with time it lessens... and when you find another Daddy.. You'll be a better and stronger Princess for having gone through this and discovering who YOUR little is without anyone elses influence. 

 

Peace, Love and Pacis!

<3 Dolly <3

[Komorebi]

I am not a little but I have had my heart broken, I don't think there is any real way of avoiding the pain. All you can do is try to surround yourself with people that care about you and/or people that make you smile and laugh even if just a little. Don't fight the emotions, just let them run their course. That is the only way that I know to get you through having your heart broken.

[Guest Lonelylittlekitten]

Thank both of you so much! Both of your advice really helps, I'm just going to surround myself with family and friends and go treat myself to a load of new stuffies and defiantly get the jammies with the feet on!!! Thank you so much, you both cheered me up :3

[kissingkitten]

Hai lil kitten. Ima lil and i invite you to join the chat room when you want to meet some nice lils and middles and anipals and bigs. We're a big mix of nice peoples that will talk with you. Sometimes we are jus bein silly in there and sometimes we help each other. Mostly just silly. Its a nice safe place to be lil. ~huggles~

[littlelili]

Hello LLK.

Im so sorry this happened to you. I've been there and it is no fun. I agree with the others that you can b a little without a daddy. It is inside us and we cannot help it!! It's totally fine that little you is heartbroken. Let all the bad emotions flow. Don't ignore them. Look for company, be with your friends, family and ppl who care about you. If some things of being little remind you of him, then look for other little activities... hmm try a new activity that can be relaxing and nice+!! Watch your fav movie and eat some sweets.

Then when you're feeling better you'll b ready to move on!!!

Hugs x

[Guest Lonelylittlekitten]