What is a Middle?

[Guest DaddysLolita]

I feel like I identify more as a middle, I don't think of it as an age range though. I guess if I had to it'd be early tween, 10 to 13. I love my stuffies, hair clips, pretty things, cute clothes, cute earrings, coloring, etc. I'm not into sippy cups, pacis, or diapers (nothing wrong with them, just not my thing). I dunno, I'm just me

[Guest DaddysLolita]

Ok...what is ABDL, as mentioned in original topic posted?

If I remember correctly, someone somewhere else said adult baby diaper love or something along those lines, don't quote me!

[mermaidgrrl]

I'm still kinda figuring me out. I slide around a lot but I think I am sometimes little, sometimes middle. I didn't know middle was a term. I'm so glad I found this site!

[Guest CamNE]

IME, it really comes down to the little/middle and their desired age along with their ability to self-soothe. Littles can be a bit more needy while middle engage in attention seeking but can cope when daddies are unavailable. It all starts with a choice and what feels right though

[LittleSnowflake]

My age range is pretty large 4-14 and as such I can quite litratly go from cute little to bratty middle in no time at all. I really feel bad for papa sometimes having to put up with me and my little range. He never knows what he is going to have whne he gets off work

[jellicle baby]

i don't prefer calling myself either, i guess i call myself a little when it comes down to it but my range is about 7-12, but i still enjoy sippies and binkies. i dont think the world really requires that distinction, nor do i like it when people are teased about their label. 

[Guest missamylittle]

I think middle is someone who is older than an a young kid but younger than a young adult. If we think about this in grades I could say 6th grade-9th grade?? Give or take. I actually joined this site as a Little, but I'm starting to identify more with being a middle. Somewhere between 12-15. Watching tv, preferably cartoons, and eating cereal is a dream. I also like coloring, I think it forces me to focus and concentrate and let the creative juices flow. And I don't think Nymphets and Littles are the same thing, but they DO have similar qualities.

[Guest Lolitalilac]

^^^ yes exactly I'm happy you're finding yourself!! When I first discovered ddlg I thought I was a little too! But I learned that I'm a middle with little tendencies!

[Guest missamylittle]

^^^ yes exactly I'm happy you're finding yourself!! When I first discovered ddlg I thought I was a little too! But I learned that I'm a middle with little tendencies!

 

 

This explains me perfectly! "Middle with little tendencies"! 

[littleprincess_01]

I feel like I vary

(which seems to be common!!! )

 

This used to confuse me a lot!

But I feel like I figured it out a bit more and I usually fluctuate between little (6-7 to middle tweens 10-13)

I do have a binki i suck on sometimes but I'm not abdl

 

I love coloring, stickers, STUFFIES!!! bubbles, watching Disney movies or the powderpuff girls, cute girly things like glittery nails,hair clips cute frilly socks but I can also like more tween stuff a lot of the time it just depends.

[PurringKitty]

I am glad this post exists... I was feeling a bit different. I am a middle only in my sexuality, as I enjoy the idea of being taught what the sexual world is. I imagine it comes with delightful surprises and "wakes" me up to daddy's real world. It helps him cope with the real world. I never associate with a little space, I dont know why. I am definitely a very youthful, joyful, playful, expressive, affectionate and creative person, just in an 18 year old way. I do play with grown up art. I guess because I have to, its my profession. I dont own one stuffed animal. I've never before heard of a stuffie (is that British-speak?). I feel funny here sometimes because I would prefer to babysit in the chatrooms and help build forts and make food and comfort people - be an emotional mommy. But not a sexual one. I love to nurture others and give advice when asked.

Sexually I am a middle... learning all the things my daddy wants to teach me.

Edited January 5, 2017 by PurringKitty

[poppi]

I think I'm more of a middle too although I say I probably fit into a large range (7-14). Middles to me are more independent and sassy and not as into all of the little things. I don't use sippy cups or binkies or diapers (nothing wrong with them) but I still LOVE cartoons and coloring and stuff. I'm small enough that I still want daddy to cuddle me and play with me and I still love my stuffies, but big enough that I'm kind of a smartmouth and need a little stricter rules and I wanna take care of you too

This is where I would tend to put being a middle.

 

I tend to think the dd/lg dynamic is so much of a two way street and you really want to take care of each other even though there is a clearly defined partner as the caregiver.

[poppi]

If I remember correctly, someone somewhere else said adult baby diaper love or something along those lines, don't quote me!

I have run across this before and wasn't sure what it was.

 

You are absolutely right

 

http://understanding.infantilism.org/abdl_practices.php

[Satin Bow]

I feel like a middle but use the word little because it's cuter I enjoy little to middle toys, cartoons etc although I haven't played with mine yet the way I used to when I was small. That level of imagination is like a magic power of creating fantasy lands that kinda fades as you grow up.

In real life I am an older sister to a younger brother and sister and I think it would be fun to be a little-middles older sister )

[Guest Appacheian]

My little varies depending on her needs and that's fine. I don't think it's important to define a specific and it's probably littles who have a wide range who feel they can't pin themselves down and question it as opposed to littles who are a definite age. It doesn't really matter. I could come up with a new title for littles who are sometimes middles 'mittles' lol.

[Guest princedoober]

This thread is so helpful... Thanks!

[middlebabygirl]

Middles are older than any age under 18, so around 11-17. We are known as Lolitas as well. We take advantage of the adolescent stage of self-discovery, being more sensual and provocative. The middles tendency is to be a bit malicious and bratty, but some are not. However, I do not think there is a pattern.

 

All the small and medium need someone to guide them, to discover and learn and to become a better person.

 

I do not think there are many differences...

[lilironbutterfly]

In my opinion, middle is the teens... littles are 0-12 and middles are 13-19. It really all depends what you feel you are. I myself change from little to middle depending on how I'm feeling in the moment. 

[mylittlesidewearsblack]

i personally identify somewhere in the tween stage, and i wasn't sure if i was a middle or not. i do kind of like being called a middle, though. To me, a little would be like pre-puberty, and a middle is a pubescent sort of mind set - still young and playful and naive, but not really little. Thinking you're grown up and you know everything, but still needing Daddy to guide and protect you kind of a thing.

[-LittleDisneyPrincess]

I class myself as a little as I am around 5-8 years old. Anything older then 8 I see as a middle.

[Guest Little Bee]

OMG! I wish I saw this thread sooner. It's really helpful, it helped me have words for who I am I used to mainly identify as a little because I do feel that way, but I've always wondered if other littles are into pacis or diapeys then am I a little? I suppose my little is just not that young and I switch from little to middle from time to time. And I really relate to others being in middle space and being more sassy and sexually explorative (not sure if that's the right word lol) Edited April 19, 2017 by Little Bee

[Guest Barefootgirl]

I think that everyone has their own opinions on 'the ages' of middles, littles, baby girls. I have no idea what I consider them to be, and I dont think (to me) they are important. Of course, if I HAD to, I'd say my little age is 8.

 

After years of wanting to be labeled and learning, I am at the point where I am comfortable simply being me.

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, I am a 52 year old middle in the 13-18 age play range.

 

I had a really terrible bad time from 13-18, so I want to live it again as I would have liked to now.

I want to have my first kiss, first crush, first date and loose my virginity again for the first time,

 

I have always been a middle in my head and heart even if I can't show it to others.

 

Sometimes, I tie a big ribbon bow around my ponytail, wear lots of pink and if anyone asks me, I tell them it's "Barbie Friday" or whatever day it is.

With my Daddy, I suck his thumb (he likes it too), wear my twirly skirts, high heel Mary Jane's, when we go out, Daddy holds my hand and keeps me really close to him and he orders for me in restaurants. I like blowing bubbles at the beach, swinging on swings, riding the carousel and the Ferris Wheel at the Pier, the London Eye, The Big Wheel at Place de la Concorde................. trying to make every moment filled with being playful, precious and fun. Hugs

[Guest LittleFangirl]

I think that I found my category. I'm middle! (but I prefer called "little" ) I only watch Tv because cartoons and they are varied -from WeAreBears to American Dad- And I feel more comfortable when someone treat me like a little girl -that is comun, because I don't look like twenty!

I'm definitely a middle n.n

[Evamae]

I kept asking myself the same question as yours. I think I am definitely a middle, 12 to 15, and I don't like pacis or diapers. I'm very sexual when I'm in my little space but sometimes I just want cuddles and my stuffies. What's a nymphet though?   

Edited September 28, 2017 by Evamae