How long should I let my BF think about it?

[snuggleprincess]

I know there is not one answer to this question, but..... how long would YOU give a BF to think it over after you tell him you're Little and want him to be a Daddy?  I don't want to hang on for too long, you know?

 

He had no idea what DDlg was when I told him about it, and at first was a little weirded out by it.  He has made attempts to act as a Daddy though, but the extent of that is still pretty limited.  I don't think he has read up on it at all except one link I gave him.  He says he doesn't want me to call him Daddy yet but he calls me BabyDoll, and his Little Girl.  How much time should I give him to determine whether or not he's really into it?

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Don't give him time. Just talk to him about it. Communication is important in any relationship. Giving to much time can make them think it's nothing and brush it off, when it actually is really important. If he isn't comfortable with being called Daddy there are a lot of other names you can try. Try introducing him more into it and see if he would be comfortable with all of it. Just sending links can be really confusing and it not as personal as experiencing it first hand. Don't go to quickly though because it can cause him to back petal and become very uncomfortable with it. Maybe just start off with some basic activities like coloring and watching cartoons together.

[snuggleprincess]

Sigh.  I guess it's just a crappy relationship to begin with because there isn't even opportunity for us to spend much time together and explore this stuff.....  He has two daughters, lives with his parents, as do I, and we live an hour apart.  I'm just really down about the whole thing.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

I'm sorry to hear that. Is there any plan for when you two meet up? You could schedule something to do together, like go to a park.

[snuggleprincess]

We don't ever get to do anything without his kids because he doesn't like to leave them with anyone,and they're out of school right now.