Public collar?

[Harley_Quinn]

Sooooo daddy let me by a puddin choker collar so I can wear it all the time (or so I say) and last night I was telling daddy I can't wait to wear it all the time right? And last night he was all like I don't want anyone to say how you're my pet and blah blah blah and I was like I'm not your pet I'm your little and I like collars. I don't see where I'm wrong here but maybe someone can explain why I can't wear my choker all the time

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Maybe he doesn't realize you don't need to be a pet to wear a collar?

[Guest AmberDoll]

You should explain to him a choker is not the same as a collar and the difference even if it was a collar if your not in pet gear and doing that stuff the collar isn't a pet collar it can just be a sub collar. he just is misinformed.         Btw Freaking awesome to have that choker from the new suicide squad movie!

Edited June 26, 2016 by AmberDoll

[ghostiris]

I wear my collar when I go out sometimes. It doubles as a choker and its cute as an accessory!

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I agree with the above. This seems to be a misunderstanding of the use of a collar. Explain to him that a collar isn't just for a pet, and that many people use it as a sign that they are committed to something, be it a lifestyle or a partner. Explain what the collar means to you. A lot of people liken them to engagement rings!

[Harley_Quinn]

I mean I've explained to him before collars can be used like promise rings or engagement rings and stuff like that. Maybe he just never understood it?

[Guest AmberDoll]

then maybe you should just say it's a fashion statement and not really a kink or anything it might make it less strange to him. x-x

[Harley_Quinn]

I got it today lol and he seems to have no issues with me wearing it