Too needy

[Guest MachoPrincess]

Me and my Daddy are in a long distance relationship until this fall when I'll be moving less than an hour away from Daddy. I'm really super excited about that! I've been counting down the days to it actually....but lately Daddy has gotten the mostest busy with work and stuffs and he doesn't have time for the things we normally do. We used to skype every night before bedtime, but he's been too sleepy or things come up and we can't do that so much anymore, and I am trying my hardest to be super understanding about the whole not being able to Skype as often thing. I really am! But we kinda had this little routine thingy we do whenever we can't skype where Daddy would text me nighnights and remind me that he loves me and stuffs and that way I would have better sleeps, and every morning Daddy would wake me up with a cute little good morning text....but Daddy hasn't done the nighnights with me in a long time and recently he's stopped saying good morning most days. He doesn't even always text me to let me know that he made it to work okay So then the rest of the day I'm just left wondering if he's okays and if I maybe did something to makes him mad at me...and because Daddy's been paying less attention to me I've noticed that I've become a lot more brattier, which really upsets me because I just want to be Daddy's good girl. I really am trying to be good and understanding, but I still do bad things...like the other day Daddy said we could for sure have skypes and I got so super duper excited! ..and then all of a sudden Daddy decided to spend the night drinking at his friends house and I tried my hardest to be understanding that Daddy needs time with his friends too, but the night ended with me throwing a temper tantrum like a total crybaby brat and it ruined Daddy's whole night...so I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what I should do? Please and thank you

Edited June 24, 2016 by MachoPrincess

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

You aren't to needy. It may seem as though he has been neglecting you, but my DD can get the same way. Just let him know how you feel and maybe try to ask for Skype night at least once a week. His schedule might just be a bit more busy is all.

[Komorebi]

Laverterrabbit is right, he is probably just busier than normal. Asking him if he can schedule some quality time once a week might be a good idea. 

He will probably make it up to you when he is not so busy any more or when you are closer. 

[Guest MachoPrincess]

It turns out he's having some...family problems and that those problems have made him decide that he doesn't love me anymore right now he says he still wants me, but that he doesn't love me right now. If he can stop loving me all of a sudden doesn't that mean he never really loved me at all? I don't know what to do, I feel like I must have done something wrong and that he's just not telling me to spare my feelings. He's breaking my heart, but he insists that he does still want to keep me. I've been crying off and on (mostly on) all day. This is killing me.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

It turns out he's having some...family problems and that those problems have made him decide that he doesn't love me anymore right now he says he still wants me, but that he doesn't love me right now. If he can stop loving me all of a sudden doesn't that mean he never really loved me at all? I don't know what to do, I feel like I must have done something wrong and that he's just not telling me to spare my feelings. He's breaking my heart, but he insists that he does still want to keep me. I've been crying off and on (mostly on) all day. This is killing me.

I'm sorry to hear what is going on is causing so many problems. Even through tough times if they really love you they would never tell you something like that. It might be hard, but if they can't tell you the truth it may not work out. I hope you can stay strong and get through this.