What is the best way to introduce him to little space?

[TeddyBear7]

I've been in a long term, LDR relationship for 2 years, and i've just now starting calling him Daddy (in the last 7 months.) I want to introduce to him more things about little space, but I don't want to creep him out or make him feel unconfortable. He liked the idea of a collar, but when I told him I wanted a paci, he got unconfortable. Please give me some advice! Especaily if you had to introduce your daddy to littlespace.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

A collar can be from other places in BDSM as well, so it's not really common with littles, but more pet play and stuff. I recommend coloring and watching cartoons together. Personally I don't like Pacifiers and never have so it might make him a bit uncomfortable if he isn't used to seeing you with it.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Lavender, as always, has some great suggestions! Try easing him in slowly, but also be upfront and honest about your interests. As I usually suggest to people struggling with your situation, find some articles and writings that explain how you feel and what you want in a clear way, and try reading them with him. Share the experience with him, and allow the opportunity to grow and learn together.

[Ariel_Anne]

I had the same problem. LDR as well. (sorta like 100 miles) I'm already known for being very girly as it is so it wasn't as much as a shock, but I opened my SO by telling him how much  I love stuffies, wearing lots of bows and girly stuff when we skype, asking for bedtime stories over skype almost every night. They just get used to after a while. If he really really loves you he will want to make you happy by treating you like the little princess he sees you as