"Foster" Daddy

[TheMadHatter]

Recently after discussing "finding a daddy" issues with several littles it occured to me why cant a daddy be a "Foster" Daddy until they find their forever Daddy. A daddy that would still comfort and care for as well as guide and council them while they continue their search. Granted issues might arrise as they always do, its unavoidable i think, but i am very curious if it can be done?? What are your thoughts???

[Guest MontBlanc]

I would find that demeaning. I'd rather just be a title less friend.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

So, I think what you're doing is sweet, but others have already ruined it for you. I've been approached by creeps, fully aware that I have a caregiver and no interest, asking if they could be a "Foster Daddy"/ "Uncle"/ "step daddy", etc. So maybe just do so without the title or refer as a counselor so it's not taken in the wrong context (think summer camp). It's common for horndogs that think DDlg is incest to use those kinds of titles.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

As has been mentioned above, tread very carefully here. I personally have heard/seen this done before, but never effectively. I understand the sentiment behind your actions, but it's very easy for a Little to get attached to their Caregiver. I think the only way this would work effectively is if the Littles were fully aware, consenting, and understood their roles in your life before entering into an arrangement with you, including how it will all end.

 

As with anything, open and honest.

[TheMadHatter]

Very interesting points, glad i asked. Thank you all for the insights.

[Gregisthedaddy]

It sounds like a dumb idea. It will not benefit either party. Emotional fall out, feelings of betrayal, confusion, being used etc will occur.

[Josh's little girl]

As a little, I couldn't see this working because after putting yourself out there eventually there is going to be feelings..

[Ember Moons]

I have seen this kinda done before only some call them sitters or uncles. This can be done but in most cases I have seen the little gets to attached. The ones that seem to work are poly relationships where they actually are in a relationship with both the sitter/uncle/anuntie and Thierry Daddy. I'm not saying it can't be done but I agree that being a little attachment becomes a major issue.

[BabyDddoll]

Is this what a MENTOR would be in other BDSM communities?

Someone to offer guidance and help along the way?

[BabyDddoll]

Is this what a MENTOR would be in other BDSM communities?

Someone to offer guidance and help along the way?