Killing time on a Saturday - DD in Canada

[ktownDaddy]

 

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

 

There is no particular message here, request for companionship or other wise. I was simply bored and thought I would take a few minutes to scribe down some thoughts and see were this monologue takes me.

 

It's funny ( not really funny - a little sad when you think about it) how quickly the days and minutes can pass when you are "BIG" with a job and responsibilities. You put your head down, start working on anothet project and before you know it another year is gone.

 

It's not too often that I get a full day off to myslef. Today, instead of pulling out my laptop and doing paper work I thought I would drop in here. It's in here that I find that sabbatical from the real world and the ability to let go of that side of my personality, I keep so carefully hidden.

 

I am not ashamed who I am - I like being a Daddy, I just think the Vanilla world doesn't quite understands what it is. I still think there is an adverse stigma that is attached to it. I think FSOG (50 shades) brought dominance to the main steam ( though in a pathetic and terribly disappointing way) and in turn one day the DDlg relationship will also come out if the shadows and be accepted. It's disappointing that many look at it as some weird kinky sexual thing. To be honest I think it's the most caring and close relationship you can have. It's not all about the sexual aspects.

 

I think I am a Daddy to many if the women in my life, in the work place and who I interact with. They perceive it as kindness, tenderness, mentorship and thoughtfulness. I think really that's what a Daddy is; kind mentor, guiding hand, a voice of wisdom, boost of confidence. I truly believe that in ever women there is a little girl.

 

The difficult part is overstepping that acceptable level of boundaries. I mean it's just not acceptable to hug everyone and give them kisses on the forehead. That said I am sure the world would be a happier place.

 

So I come here to get my little girl fix. It also allows me to explore,read and understand what makes little girls tick. What they experience and to be a better Daddy. I think it also allows me to notice traits of personality and to be able to spot those littles when they are out in public. It's a rough life living on the road and when you get the chance to engage and chat with a little/middle - it can be a high point in your week.

 

As an older professional male you also have to be exeptionally careful that you are not tagged as creepy or predatory when approaching a women who is half your age. It's unfortunate that younger littles are easier to spot than mature middles who have found ways to hide their little sides.

 

It would be nice to go out and see a few random T-shirts on random women that read " yes I am little" - life would be so much simpler.....lol.

 

I suppose I could wear a T-shirt that said " Yes - I am a Daddy" though I don't see it having the same possitive effect.

 

So, I find myself here, sending messages and chatting with people who share the same interests I do.

 

That's it for me - like I said nothing insightful of life changing, just random thoughts. If anything here has inspired thoughts you may have message me back. It's a boring lazy Saturday and I would live to hear from you.

 

D

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

I work at a daycare. Everyday, I select a Disney themed bow to match my work outfit for the day. I love my job. When I get to work three minutes early, I wave to the little toddler who gets dropped off by her daddy at the same time every day. She gets worked up and grins and waves back over her paci before clinging to his shoulders. I greet whomever may also be in the lobby before getting my morning assignment. It is typically helping the two year old classroom's lead teacher until her assistant clocks in, then going on to the three year old age group until noon. 

 

My job is to entertain the kids and help the lead teachers fulfill their lesson plans. However, I'm given a lot of freedom in how I choose to keep the class under control. One of my favorite things to do (I enter the "Threes" classroom around their story time) is play improv with them. I'll start a topic, "there was a sad dinosaur alone in the first," and the kids latch on. Of course, they have to wait their turn until they have the "storyteller hat" to add their piece to the story. From there, depending on the mood of the room that day, we'll break into centers or play another class game. Personally, I like when we go to centers so I can play with the wooden blocks and whomever decided to roost there. My favorite is building castles.

 

During lunch, I hate going home. I color my coloring book in the break room or I start a new door decorating project for my homeroom, Infants, where I work in the afternoons. Typically my break is filled with my elder peer who encourages and praises my enthusiasm as a teacher or compliments how in-tune I am with my inner child. Often, she'll humor me and ask what book I'm coloring in today or what my latest art project will be; as well as leading me CDs to sing along with in Infants. I especially love singing to Frozen. It's just has all the warm, fuzzy feels.

 

My directors find me charming and adorable; openly telling me so on a regular basis. "Ah, I love you [insert nickname]."  I'm very easily excited and amused. They noticed that I really connect with the kids and get on their level. Little do they know how much I "connect" with my inner child. As open as I am with my "Little" tendencies, I leave my sippy cup collection at home. I may bring in an odd teddy at some point (mostly because it's cute and I'm really happy with it), but that's as far as it goes.

 

I may not wear a t-shirt, but I do use a pink purse with plushies dangling from it. Sometimes "Littles" are in plain sight. It's just the matter of looking closer. 

 

Best of luck in your search!

[Guest Purple_Panda]

It would be amazing if there was something  sort of "discreet" item you could wear and people who knew about DDLG would associate that item/piece of clothing with DDLG and others wouldn't suspect a thing... This world is quite judgmental, I'd be too afraid to wear something so obvious. Although you would be able to spot others from the community easier. 

 

I'm training to be hair dresser, so day to day I have to remain professional. So my little side gets shoved down so deep inside that it sort of springs out when I get home, however I do not get to do anything little as I'm too tired(I have an iron level of 5) and I can tell its effecting me in my day to day life now. I'm more anxious then ever as I can't have my release(being in little space) to bring me back down to earth. But hey it'll be easier when I get a daddy

 

I mean there are things in the salon which sends me into a small little space but i have to watch it... things like shampooing, i love the bubbles! especially when you use sliver shampoo you get purple ones! XD The rollers, i just want to build a tower/houses with them and blow them everywhere with a hairdryer haha  XD

 

Anyway I hope everyone had an amazing day

[ktownDaddy]

Hello and thank you for your wonderful replies. I would like to start off by sorry for the delay - I didn't realize I had to manually check for replies and that I wouldn't be notified.

 

I found both replies very insightful and interesting. It funny how when I used to run a large night club, I was always known as the most astute one on the floor noticing the problem customers well before anyone else and identifying who should be cut off or escorted out.

 

I think if you are a keen observatiobalist and know what to look for you can notice many things. It's just knowing what to look for and honing your skills.

 

Thank you for sharing parts of your lives and personalities - I have taken note and will try to be more astute.

 

D