littleprincess33 Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 I have been doing some research and looking around about being a little and it seems like because I use to be a mistress and have sort of a "dominating " persona that I should become a mommy , however I have not seen a lot of girls wanting a mommy . Does anyone have any advice ??
cutie_patootie Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 Some of us are indeed looking for a Mommy. Maybe posting a personals advertisement might be advisable??
Guest QueenJellybean Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 Hi there! I would suggest that you base what you feel you are off of what you feel, not what you think people are looking for in a romantic partner! You should be true to yourself, and if you feel like you are a Mommy/Mistress type, then that's what you should be! Someone who fits you will come along, but try not to tailor yourself to what you think others want. <3 Also, being a Switch is always an option too, and don't feel badly experimenting with both roles until you find what fits you! Good luck! 3
Guest Ginger-Kit22 Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 (edited) Just be you. If that leans more towards being a Mommy, then be that. If it's sort of in the middle (like I am), maybe a Big Sister? It's best to be you and if you attract someone that way, I believe. Then at least there's no 'smoke' to get through. As for finding a Little girl, it's tough, but doable. Just don't settle for the first one that comes along. Edited June 17, 2016 by Ginger-Kit22
cutie_patootie Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 (edited) littleprincess33, I'm sorry... I thought you were looking for a little but clearly you were just looking for some advice. I'm such a moron, I'm so sorry. I'm not very good at giving advice nor am I really qualified to be advising other people but here goes anyway... All I can say is this; be yourself, be true to who you are inside and how you feel deep inside your heart while not allowing your heart to take over your head. And that in itself can be difficult at the best of times. We cannot change our personalities, we are who we are. Yes, we can change our attitude(s) but each one of us is who we are. And don't worry, you will find your niche here. Edited June 18, 2016 by cutie_patootie
Guest Zips Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 (edited) I have been doing some research and looking around about being a little and it seems like because I use to be a mistress and have sort of a "dominating " persona that I should become a mommy , however I have not seen a lot of girls wanting a mommy . Does anyone have any advice ?? Hi there! I would suggest that you base what you feel you are off of what you feel, not what you think people are looking for in a romantic partner! You should be true to yourself, and if you feel like you are a Mommy/Mistress type, then that's what you should be! Someone who fits you will come along, but try not to tailor yourself to what you think others want. <3 Also, being a Switch is always an option too, and don't feel badly experimenting with both roles until you find what fits you! Good luck! BBB put it quite nicely here. If you go into relationships trying to be what you think the other person wants, it'll never work out. Instead, you have to go into relationships being the person that you ARE, and just find people who like what you are. Trying to constantly uphold anothers expectations is exhausting and it'd just burn you out over time. On the other hand, self-discovery is very rewarding. That's the key to happiness. There are definately lots of littles out there looking for a Mommy- some want a Mommy and a Daddy, some just a Mommy etc... I think the dynamic is pretty diversified in terms of addressing an individuals needs. There's something out there for everyone. Additionally, try not to fall into the mindset of thinking that you have to fit any one label exactly. There is no perfect fit for this shoe that is ddlg. The key is in finding someone you can experiement and grow with through a foundation of understanding. It's hard to come up with anything original to say when BBB puts it so eloquently, gosh darn it! Edited June 17, 2016 by Zips
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 You don't have to be a Mommy just because you're considered dominant. A dominant little is another option. But dominance doesn't have to play a huge role in the relationship if you don't want it too. So basically just think about what you want and try to make it work with your partner not what you think ddlg should be like..
littleprincess33 Posted June 18, 2016 Author Report Posted June 18, 2016 Thank you so much for the advice you guys
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