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So I did a thing. I lurked. I saw. I sipped some tea. And because I saw what I saw, I'd like to state an additional opinion about the overall situation. *Ahem* There seems to be two kinds of users here on this site. User Type 1) Only wants to search for a dynamic partner. Has zero interest in any level of finding friendship by utilizing our community. And may or may not be looking for instant gratification. User Type 2) Is an active member of the community that enjoys socializing outside of just the personal/friend zone sections. I, obviously, fall under UT2. However, it seems to me that the user you interacted with is a UT1. Not saying that there's technically anything wrong with being a UT1, but they're definitely a specific type of *special* in non dynamic social settings. Basically, I'm telling you to not feel bad about this interaction, because it's literally a them problem. The gods forbid if someone reaches out in a non-sexual/partner-seeking way. *eye roll*

Someone doesn’t want to be called sunshine, their prerogative. However, hurt people hurt people, so it sounds as if they were just lashing out. Kindness in any fashion, especially on a site like this, can dredge up all kinds of repressed feelings of self-loathing and hurt. In my opinion, which you can take with a grain of salt obviously as this is the internet, but fuck that noise. It should have stopped simply with “I prefer not to be called sunshine, thank you.” Any further insults or additional venom and drivel spewed following said polite asking to refrain from pet names is garbage. Perhaps THEY don’t feel this is a family or community because they don’t recognize the healthy dynamics we all have with each other. I have a Daddy and he’s on here, but I also have friends I consider family here. Like I’ve mentioned previously on a post, family dynamics can be hard for people and when they see it modeled here through our kind interactions that border on familial familiarity, they may not be receptive of that level of attention. Again, just my opinion, but if you’re comfortable with yourself and how you communicate with people, then do not change. Respect someone asking politely to refrain, but in situations like this, the reaction was excessive and unnecessary. You’re part of this FAMILY here. Do what you feel you must, but just know we are all here for you whenever and however we can be. You are loved and worthy of being loved. 💜

My wish is that this poem gives hope to the hopeless and is a ray of light for those still in the dark. 💜 Little inside, living life with innocent eyes, With a terrible childhood, it’s no surprise. Cute, small, tiny, scared, Fighting for life, gasping for air. Why am I like this, this is so unfair, Splintered inside, pain beyond compare. Alone in the dark, I’m right on the verge, When out of the veil, a hand has emerged. You are safe now, a voice calls loud, Grab hold of my hand, I’ll lead you on out. A beacon of hope, in a suit made of flesh, Daddy has come, and now I may rest.

As stated, everyone has the right to request not being called XYZ. And I know you would respect any such request. They do not however have the right to lash out at someone after that request has been made and honored. Just avoid them and put the incident behind you. I personally like putting things like this behind me so they can watch my bum as I happily walk away 😉 . When I joined I was quickly informed that my southern manners needed to be left at the door when logging in, something about not calling an admin ma'am when responding ooops. But I grew up calling everyone sir or ma'am and everyone calls kids babyboy or babygirl where I live. It was a hard habit to break when entering the lifestyle. But in your case of using sunshine I have received no reports nor have I ever noticed you "targeting" any specific group. You use it with everyone equally, unlike the ones I have to address which target only single littles. Which is why I have seen no reason in asking you to refrain from using the non petname version of the word. I won't bash anyone for not feeling the family aspect of our community. I do however feel sad for them that they are not open to letting themselves be a part of it for whatever reasons. As for UT1 and UT2 I will choose a single UT2 over a thousand UT1s any day. I'm not here for instant anything as I prefer a connection with anyone I associate with on any level. Take a deep breath and exhale all that negativity because it isn't a part of who you are and has no hold on you. We are all called to be a light to others and if someone wants to stay in the dark that is their choice. We move on and keep being a beacon for those that are seeking brighter days.

Miss Anna, you have been a beacon of hope for many! When the oceans are dark yours the light house showing the way home, when the oceans are choppy your the anchor keeping people from drifting away! Maybe this person was having an off day? It’s hard to say what some people think, but we here are a community yes, but to me that’s what a community is like, a small family and we look out for each other. That’s all you have ever done, looked out for people! You have everyone’s intentions before your own and you do your best to ensure that everyone is left feeling welcomed and loved! Something everyone is entitled to! (Despite what they think) l beg you not to change! Stay unapologetically you! Some people may not like it but there are more positives than negative peoples I ensure you! as always! Until we meet again!! Remember you are loved, you are cared for and you are a highly respected member of this community!

You are doing nothing wrong. I would not have joined the forum if I hadn’t seen one of your posts, & I wouldn’t have stuck around when I was made to feel uncomfortable that time. My grandparents taught me kindness above all else, “kindness is free to give out, but to the person reserving your kindness it’s value is immeasurable” that’s a motto they lived by, and to be honest the math on that is inarguable. I don’t know who this person is, but, in my experience people often find it hard & scary to accept words offered in kindness and care, if they are only used to words loaded with hurt and hate. I don’t say that to defend or because I think it should change anything, because it does not & I am not. What they did & how they responded was incredibly wrong & hurtful & that bit is on them because we are 100% in charge & responsible for our reactions to things. Don’t let this change you, or bring you down. Don’t let someone bring you into the dark, stay in the light.

Disclaimer: This application is intended as a communication aid, not a replacement for building connection or trust. While it can help facilitate conversations around boundaries, caregiving style, and emotional needs, it is not a guarantee of safety or compatibility. Littles and caregivers are encouraged to use this form mindfully, as part of a larger journey of getting to know one another — not as a shortcut or a checklist. This form is designed to help littles find safe, emotionally mature, and genuinely caring caregivers. Whether you're looking for a serious dynamic or just need help filtering out red flags, this application encourages real connection, healthy boundaries, and kindness. Printable & Fillable Pastel-themed & cute as heck Includes emotional maturity check and red flag questions Let's make the DDLG/CGL space softer, safer, and more full of love ❤️ Download link (Please tell me if it doesn't work): https://drive.google.com/file/d/15LD6esjjGHuX_zLLVUABNk7VdlLswFHS/view?usp=sharing Feel free to use it, share it, or adapt it -- just please don't remove credit as I worked very hard on this! With fluff and love, -MissMaple P.S This is not about exclusion - it's about safety and clarity. Also, I would love to know your thoughts! I'm honestly stressing about it haha

For fun at work... I watch kids have meltdowns and figure out the reason for the behavior, then develop a plan to teach a new behavior.... I know I'm a weird... but it totally brightens my day when a kid completely looses it in my classroom!!! I know what to do with challenging behavior, culturally diverse learners, language learners and random schedule changes... but I can't handle adults who are unable to put the needs of the students above all else during the school day... 🤔 😳 🙄 Give me flying chairs, tables shelves and escape artists running down the hallways any day of the week! Just don't give me a teacher who talks down to me professionally, yells at a child or for heavens sakes threatens a child with... if you don't...... then I'm gonna tell your Mom... Please! I'm the boss in my classroom! I don't raise my voice, I don't threaten, I don't use manipulation. But my students are allowed to have massive, horrendous, hideous, horrible, monstrous meltdowns. Because when they are calm again, I sit with them and say. Hi friend. I love you. I'm so happy you are in my class. Would you like a hug? Do you want to sit with me a minute til you're ready to move on? OK. And we never talk about it again!!😮 Wow forgiveness is so powerful! I'm not saying I've got the best strategy, but I am saying that teaching preschoolers is amazing! It's also not a career for me. It isn't even my passion. It's so much deeper than that. It's like I was born for this, then life really messed with me. You see the world tried to break me, over and over and over again. But every time I got pulverize by homelessness, poverty, abuse (every single kind you think of prolly), neglect, starvation, sickness, social injustice, religious legalism, inadequate Healthcare, poor nutrition, unsafe work standards, inappropriate expectations, and lack of services, someone was there. Maybe it was my 5th grade teacher who really saw me for who I was, not the poor kid with the drunk mother, who babysat every night to buy herself and her siblings shoes and clothes and school supplies. My teacher saw me as smart and fun and gave a beautiful nickname, that she still calls when she subs in my classroom! Or the lunch lady at school who always let me have seconds without paying for them The Grocery Store owner who gave me a job when I moved back and then when he and his wife found out I was pregnant and alone, canceled the debt on my in-store charge account that my ex used without my consent. Then, they bought me 6 months worth of diapers and tons of baby clothes to help make life a little easier, and gave me consistent hours to make childcare easier. Sister Estell who stopped by regularly. She took me to church and fed me every week. I remember her telling me so many positive things, and yelling at my parents 😆 You see when life tries to rob you of love, joy, peace, safety. Remember! Think hard about those moments you did have kindness shown to you. Remember the smiles, the extra support. The moments someone helped you because that right there is what will get you through! It's called resilience and it doesn't have to be big memories. It can be the pharmacy aide who offered to pay for my meds when I couldn't afford them last summer or the medical equipment store who never charged me for the pulse oximeter when I was super sick with Covid, but couldn't be hospitalized without putting my kids in foster care... the people who check on you every day and really do wanna know how you are. Remember them. Know that behavior is communication and how someone treats you is important. Choose good, kind people to surround yourself and build each other up! Life is so hard for each of us, we can only get through this together.

As far as I'm concerned, everybody matters in their own way. Everybody is needed to make this community strong. In this community we've always been a be yourself don't try to change for other people. With people are ut1 or ut2 we should always push people to be themselves and if we're not ourselves how can we even attempt to connect with others? Whether it's just to make friends or potential more. And I do see this as a family slightly dysfunctional at times but what family is completely functional?! With this many people and one small area of course there's going to be people that take things differently than the way the are stated. And I really enjoy being called sunshine. It always makes me smile to see your posts. Been through quite a bit some of us more than others. Sometimes we just have to let go of the pain. Or see somebody to talk about our pain and deeper rooted issues. So much is lost in text versus no more human connections. What they might see might be different than your intentions. Through text you cannot see people's facial expressions hear their tone. That is why whenever something bothers me that I have read from a text or a message I tried it take a few hours or a day to think before I speak. To try to remember to take the time to see things from both sides. I personally have never had a family member take their lives that I was old enough to remember. I have had some close friends that felt like no one was there for them that they were unloved that they had no one to reach out to, even though all of their friends tried it wasn't the right way or the right words. And sometimes it just wouldn't matter. It really depends on who else has an influence. For what the root cause for the destructive mindset. It's hard to be on either side of that fence. Please never stop being yourself that sounds so cliche but it's so true. If you have to change the way you are to make somebody happy that's just lying to yourself. And lying to yourself is detrimental to your mental health. Putting the southern aspects of your personality aside is one thing but changing your positive attitude and greeting to others just for one person. Pain is pain. Whoever this individual is I hope they get the help to properly move forward in a positive manner to get to a point of positive mental health. Luvs to everyone. Everyone here is special and very important to someone and I hope to learn so much more of getting myself to a better place mentally. And so far with a few setbacks here and there this place has helped me so much more. I can talk about things that are more vanilla and yet also not. This place is like a warm safe place in a storm of different emotions and situations in life.

Oh Sweet Mommy, please know that your positive energy and use of Sunshine in your posts, plus your Southern hospitality help get me through my days! I look forward to your thoughts daily and enjoy how you embrace everyone with grace and compassion. ❤️ Your intentions are to support everyone on their journey here, which is the very definition of a kind, nurturing mother in a family. I feel supported and encouraged to be me, by you and others here in a way my own family never has and never will, but it is making me a better person. Reading your insights and the way you care for others helps me know that I can keep growing and improving myself. Please know that when others lash out in anger, it often comes from a place of deep pain within themselves. Perhaps something triggered that person's fear response or deeply held shame messages. Seeing your kindness and genuine love for all of us is sometimes difficult for me, too. In my real life family, when my mother showed kindness or love it was to gain an advantage. We just had to "wait for the other shoe to drop", so to speak. I have worked hard for decades in therapy to accept people at their word, but I am very aware of this ongoing battle in myself. The best thing for me was people to be consistent in their compassion toward me. To continue in their unconditional acceptance, love and positive attitude. It hurt so much to be near them. I had to take breaks, but when I realized they did not change who they are, I could accept that the world was not what I knew. It was so much better! You are a light in the darkness to all of us. You help me to believe that people are good in this world. I see who you are in your messages and I know even in your pain, you are strong, beautiful inside and out, and you are a cherished member of our community, our family.

Hi Sunshines! With so much going on in the world I thought I would ask some funny questions. Don't feel like you have to answer just giggle along with the rest of us 😀 1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself? My answer: I'm not weird, I'm a squirrel trapped inside a woman living my best nutty life. 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be? My answer: Peppermint because I love the taste and smell of mint 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be? My answer: Probably criminals because they are always getting into trouble lol 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever? My answer: Hmm that's a tough one probably appetizers I love fried things lol 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say? My answer: Will randomly blurt out things at the worst times. 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could? My answer: Hands down laundry, I would rather do dishes everyday then laundry lol 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be? My answer: Pumpkin spice because I love pumpkin pie yummy 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be? My answer: Everybody dance now! 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals? My answer: Animals, I would love to know why my dog always tilts her head when I dance around the house lol 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be? My answer: Most definitely a Pineapple, because I would always get to wear a crown I hope you liked my questions and answers, remember it's okay to be silly and have fun even during the most difficult of times. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved ❤️

I had some fun with my flower box this weekend!

The proof is in the thread You are awesome You are respected You are loved There is no other take away.

I've said it before, and I will say it again. You be you, be unapologetically you, and don't change for anyone. You are ne of the kindest and sweetest people I've met, and your posts do nothing but bring people together in this cold uncaring world. If someone doesn't like what you've said that's on them, and while they have every right to tell you if they do or don't like being called something, they have zero right to try to bring you down because of it. The fact they try to talk down about the community too, feels like they're likely someone very hurt, just looking to lash out and spread that pain around, but you do not deserve it. It's hard, but do not try to take it personally, if they really are just a hurt person anyone and everyone could have potentially been on the receiving end of their ire. But the best thing you can do for now, I think, is to understand that it's not you they were mad at, and try your best to move on and continue to be the wonderful person you are. I may not have known you for a long time, but the only thing you've done is make the world a better place by being yourself.

1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself? It was this little bit to myself as I got cake from the fridge. 🍰 I thought I was the only human around and got caught 🫢 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be? I've been told honey 🍯 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be? To be cute and taste testers of veggies/fruits 🐹 They take their jobs VERY seriously! 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever? DESSERTS!! 🍦🍪🍩I have a sweet tooth 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say? Will snitch chocolate and sweets like a mouse 🍫🍬🐁 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could? Meal planning 😖 I don't like deciding what to make for dinner every night 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be? Cinnamon 😋 It's sweet and goes with my favorite holidays 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be? Mrs Magic by Strawberry Guy ✨🍓 It came up as my most played song on Spotify last year. 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals? Funny that I was just having a conversation with a friend about this! I totally believe it's possible to communicate with animals which I'm trying to figure out how. 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be? Blackberry 💜 My favorite color and yummy flavor!

1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself? My answer:🎵 I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts... why does this song always get stuck in my head? Where is this song from? Lion King! Oh crap I'm supposed to be doing something!!! I really hope no one noticed that!!🫣 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be? My answer: cotton candy because it's my favorite kind of ice cream! 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be? My answer: no pets, but I once had a fish... he would be a lifeguard! 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever? My answer: Desserts 100% of the time! I crave sweets!! Not chocolate so much, but sugar, ice cream, fruit, carrots, sweet potatoes, beets, pumpkin, yogurt, hot cereal! 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say? My answer: Caution: she always looks calm... but you never know what's simmering under the surface! 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could? My answer: can I pick all chores? 😆 I guess floors are the worst... 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be? My answer: The spice ginger. A little is nice, a lot is WOW! 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be? My answer: Get Back Up Again - Trolls (Poppy) 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals? My answer: Speak every language! Think of all the people I could help! And love! And teach! 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be? My answer: apples simple, elegant, lots of variety, lots of uses, lots of friends

1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself? Probably has to be when I got asked if I just called the director of my former agency, and I quote, a wembley fraggle rock, muppet ass looking chauvinist 😅 not my proudest moment but hey lol 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be? Umami! Amazing flavor but often overlooked 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be? The dog? Definitely a new-age hippy therapist The cat? An evil mastermind….hundred percent 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever? Appetizers for sure. The options and flavor profiles are endless! 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say? May cry for no reason 🤣 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could? Laundry….definitely laundry 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be? Garlic. I don’t think more needs to be said, it’s amazing. 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be? Rock Lobster- B52s 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals? Im a lover of language, so that for sure! 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be? Ooh. Persimmon. That’s a fruit right? It’s tricksy…it looks like a sour or savory veggie, but is actually sweet and tasty inside.

1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself? My answer: Meep, Meep!! (I used to be a speedwalker) 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be? My answer: Strawberry!! Love it!! 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be? My answer: Holding the couch down from flying into space! Our cat's pretty good at that!! 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever? My answer: Appetizers!! I love Chedder Bites and Mozarella sticks in Marinara from Sonic! I've always loved Bread and Salads at Olive Garden, and those little wienie things on toothpicks wrapped in Bacon!! Mmmm..... 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say? My answer: Humor him - he thinks he's funny, but the best is yet to come! 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could? My answer: Eating!! I wanna run on Solar Power!! 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be? My answer: Any 5 of those girls! I thought their music was great!! 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be? My answer: "Lookin' out for a Hero" - Whitney Huston 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals? My answer: Every Language in the World. Some people are animals already, so we're covered on that I think. 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be? My answer: Strawberry!! Love it!!

1. What's the funniest thing you've ever been caught muttering to yourself ? I learned as a kid never mutter anything out loud because someone is always listening and you usually get yourself in trouble. 2. If you were a flavor, which one would you be ? Piñon, underrated and not everyone gets it. 3. If animals had jobs, what would your pet’s job be ? Mine are pigs so they would be in waste management or farmers, possibly competitive eaters. 4.Would you rather eat only desserts or only appetizers forever ? Appetizers for sure. 5. If you had a warning label, what would it say ? Knows how to swim so not afraid to burn bridges. 6. What’s a chore you’d eliminate forever if you could ? Vacuuming. 7. If you were a spice, which one would you be ? Tajin, I go with everything and people either love me or hate me. 8. If you could have a song play every time you enter a room, what would it be ? Country Folks - Bubba Sparxxx 9. Would you rather speak every language in the world or be able to speak to animals ? Every language. The possibilities that would open are insane. 10. If you were a fruit, what fruit would you be ? Passion fruit. Pretty plain to look at but once you get to the inside you find a sweet/tart treat that you want more of.

I am so sorry that someone made you feel like you were in the wrong. That must have been very hurtful to you since you try so hard to make people happy. I don’t live in a place where people use generic pet names or southern hospitality, but I’ve always seen you calling people sunshine as an uplifting gesture of friendship. Obviously people are entitled to their feelings. It’s perfectly okay for them to request you don’t use pet names with them. It’s not okay for that person to hurt you. Obviously I don’t know them and can’t speak on them, but I do know what it’s like to have depression. It can be very hard to hear people say positive things when your brain keeps telling you the opposite. If that person wants to be angry and keep themselves separate from the community here, that’s up to them. I hope that they can climb out of that hole and see you, and the community as a whole, as a place of love and comfort and support. I know that you will respect their wishes, but please please keep being yourself. Do not give anyone the power to dull your sparkle. You are a light to so many people. If you ever need to talk, please feel free to reach out.

When I read your initial post, @MommyDom41, I was angry for a moment on your behalf. How dare someone tell you that your amazingly positive demeanor is inappropriate! Then I took a deep breath and tried to think about this from the unknown person's perspective, and I still don't think they had the right to tell you off for being who you are. I can certainly be sympathetic to whatever wounds they may have that elicited this response on their part, and I could even find it in my heart to try to treat that person gently, there is still no reason to expect that their demands should apply to your interactions with anyone else. It's my perception that kind of behavior is a little too similar to those of the dominant persuasion who take out their perceived shortcomings on others. I have a lot more thoughts about actions and reactions, but I feel it's inappropriate for me to blather on without more direct knowledge of this person and what factors may be affecting what are, to me, overreactions to behavior that--while possibly a trigger for them--come from a place of loving innocence from you. It's one thing to ask to not be called something on an individual basis, but it's quite another to try to control one's behavior because of one's own fear. I'm sorry that happened to you, @MommyDom41, and you can rest assured that, from my perspective at least, you are like a golden ray of sunshine that bathes everyone in loving warmth. Please never stop.

I was little in a semi southern state and was raised in a very respectful home. These words slip out in my everyday life all the time with a smile on my face. I need to edit my posts regularly, too! It's not meant to be offensive, when I regress in my little headspace, it comes out naturally and way more than I intend... I also tend to call people "sweetheart, dear one, buddy, friend, love, and hun out of habit from my job! It helps build a sense of endearment and attachment with my students, but I get in trouble for it because as a teacher, we can only call someone the name on their birth certificate.

Side stepping the point of this thread for a second… hope you don’t mind… but @shadowrider it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one that struggles with this! Growing up it was ingrained in me, it’s been such a hard habit to break (at least in this aspect of my life) & I still feel like I’m being insanely rude sometimes when I don’t call people it. I even check anything I’m sending or posting multiple times to make sure it hasn’t snuck in.

You’ve done nothing wrong ! Some people just enjoy stirring crap up to make themselves feel superior, and they were totally wrong for treating you that way. I find your positive words refreshing, always ! You are a beautiful person, inside and out. Please don't let negative selfish peeps get you down. Its impossible to make everyone happy. Please ! You be You,

Plus as our dear friend @-Soul-pointed out the responses sure seem like family retorts to me . Just another reason you people make me proud

@MommyDom41 off days are okay! What isn’t okay are people trying to extinguish others flames! We YOUR FAMILY here will add logs to your flame, we will stoke your fire and we will protect you from the winds that threaten! we love you! Please never change

Petnames are problematic because of the type of site this is. That's why it's technically against the rules. However, imho, you've been pretty consistent in addressing everyone with the same petname and speech patterns. So, it's rather obvious that it's not done out of you being a creep. I think whoever got mad at you, particularly the way they did, just enjoys being angry and aggressive with others. In a previous thread of yours, I'd warned you against using any kind of southern hospitality here, because some people just won't get it. But now, I strongly suggest continuing to just be yourself. Also, absolutely fuck them for saying shit about our tiny community. If they really don't like it here that much, they can always leave. There's even a handy *delete account* button that they can utilize.

Well everyone is totally titled to their opinion. A lot of us do consider it home here we have members who mostly post daily for years ,but like I said each your own and if people don’t like being called sunshine that’s valid. I personally feel your story and message are inspiring and I say keep being you I enjoy your posts immensely

1. Incoherent littlespace babbling while arguing with myself. 2. Skittles 3. Ankle biters for hire. 4. Appetizers, because I lack a sweet tooth. 5. Caution: Avoid bright light, don't get wet, and don't feed after midnight. 6. All of them 7. Baby Spice 8. The Only Thing They Fear Is You 9. Yes 10. Strawberry Fields Forever

Hi all you beautiful amazing wonderful people on here! How have you all been? Anyone do anything fun recently? Maybe meet new friends or potential life partners? I get so excited when I see you all find your happiness it makes me want to squeal with happiness! So over the past few weeks I hage begun to discover what makes me, well me lol I have realized I absolutely adore taking care of someone but I also love being told what to do. And by that it has left me with so many questions, as in am I really a Mommy? Am I a switch or a little? But then I think okay Anna do you have any traits of a little? Don't get me wrong I love watching cartoons, coloring and of course I go to bed every night with Mr Bunny (he's my chocolate stuffed bunny rabbit). And I get so excited over the tiniest things like gummies they are my favorite, but honestly that's it. (Well minus the large amounts of sleepers in my closet but no one needs to know about that lol) That's it though, so am I little? Maybe, I mean it's possible but at the end of the day I adore being there for people. I love helping them and lifting them up to show them that they are not alone. I love having someone to talk to and cuddle with making sure they are safe. That's what makes my heart leap for joy is to love someone. Then I wonder where does that leave me? I know I've had this rant a few times but I finally accepted myself, I can honestly say I am a loving kind submissive (maybe somewhat of a little) Mommy who needs an assertive little or CG. i mean the skies the limit right? Do I want a little? Yes absolutely. Am I opposed to CGs? No as long as they can handle my loving Mommy side. So again it makes me question what am I? But that's the beauty of this forum, you can be whoever you are or need to be and you will be accepted. I know that no matter what happens in my life, no matter who I end up with I will be loved. If I find my forever little that's beautiful, if I find a daddy or Mommy then that is beautiful as well. I'm not shutting out in possibilities, I'm finally saying it's okay to be me. So if I can accept myself then you my beautiful Sunshines can accept yourselves. No matter what you identity with, you are accepted and you are loved. I see you, I value you and I am so proud of you! Life is too short to listen to the negativity, I want you all to focus on remembering that you are perfect just the way you are. Because if I can smile in the mirror and know it's okay to be a submissive(somewhat of a little) Mommy then you can smile in the mirror knowing you are perfect too! Don't ever doubt your self worth, remember you are amazing and I am rooting for you. I am so proud of each and everyone of you. I love reading your stories and I get so happy when you all find your happily ever after! And for those who are still looking don't ever give up on your dreams. No matter if you are here for friends, partners or just someone to accept you. I promise you will find all that and more on here. Thank you for listening to my rant and allowing me to take up a little bit of your time. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💝💖❤️❣️ If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever. >> - Winnie the Pooh

Learning how to hang on to the good times and memories and the promise of a better tomorrow is definitely a key to remaining grateful and content in life. Paul was in prison when he said he learned the secret to being content in every situation. Most today struggle being content with an older phone or slow internet and here Paul was locked away and still not bitter or downhearted. Keep holding on to that spark inside you and keep shining for those around you.

@shadowrider You are such an inspiration to this forum. Thank you for being a beacon of hope to so many of us on here. Thank you for understanding my Southern hospitality and for being so kind to me. Thank you for accepting all of us and always being there for us no matter what. We appreciate you ❣️

Ohhh Mommy Anna, please stay who you are, megili really feels sorry for what happened. People come and go with different shapes of personality and experience. megili would say that really most if not everyone lovess to hear such gentle and kind words, and names you like to give, for your kindness and character we just all adore you. But, there will always be the small percentage of people who doesnt want these things, maybe cuz they went through a rough path and can´t see much joy and happyness outside of a relationship, maybe friends or family weren´t really good to these people only causing trouble and pain. All in all it shouldn´t give them a motif too lash out so heavily, just a simple noo please don´t do it would be enough, without any lecturing of how bad its that you do it. It´s your personalitiy and everyone should be how they are, thats how true beauty shines through, by bein true to themselfs. For little megili and lots of others, your kind words and approach are the rays of light we need for takin on our challenges in daily life. Please stay how you are, you are perfect and we the Big familie we are, truly lovveee havin you here, a lot of people could take somethin even a little bit from you and they would beee much more lovely, that´s how much joy you give to all of us 😊 @.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ That´s really an interestin theory. Actually megili already encountered some User Type 1 persons. It´s nothin but about them that´s true, but megili did feel strange when the first lines are like can we exchange stuff and such, and yes almost no info about them in the profile thats true. For megili, she loves bein type 2, havin such a great joy bein in our big family here 😊

@MommyDom41Please do not let the voice of one other dictate anything about who you are. As all the support above proves, you are a wonderful person and a bright spot in many people's days when they read your messages. Please don't let anyone tell you otherwise, and stay who you are, I fully back up the positive messages above 👍

Oh Sissy Anna I love your post, I log on often just to see if you've put anything new up cause it always brings light to my day and makes me feel better. You've helped me through some rough days and are always supportive. Please don't change what your doing over one person and never apologize. You didn't do anything wrong they are just having a day or angry at the something and taking it out on you.

i don't think you're doing anything wrong! not everyone will react the same way to things obviously but doesn't mean it's your fault :(( i think your posts are great and they had no right to be mean when u apologized for it already

I think I would be okay in your posts to everyone I would not stop it maybe if you enter in private conversations you can ask but I see nothing wrong with you using it like you do and I would encourage you not to stop. I like being a sunshine 😁😁

Therapy is a necessary evil and I am SO proud of you for being brave and taking that step!! It sucks so much because you’ll have to do painful and emotional work, but your future healed self is already looking back thru time and thanking you for doing it. You may not be little but it’s okay to not be big. Imagine you’re little Anna and walking next to you, holding your hand, is 100 year old Anna telling you how proud she is and how thankful she is that you’re doing what needs to be done. If ya need an ear, my inbox is open to you. 💜💜

hehehe my day was pwetty goods today, altho it was super wong and hard being away from my stuffie I did it and made it backs hehe I missed my hippo so muchies he's my everything. my grandma gave him to me almost 22 years ago when I was a new born still in the hospital and it is all I has left fwom her so Is very had to be away from him. i is making foods now so I is gonna eats!!!! hehehe

@Andriel_Isilien thank you for being my friend and for being such an inspiration to all those around you. You bring such a positive atmosphere everywhere you go. So thank you for being you and for always making everyones day brighter 💖

I'm proud of everyone in this thread proving otherwise 💟🥰 Family (or at least a family-like community) is the keyword I would use to describe this forum. Seeing the support towards one other gives me hope and inspiration. A smile and a kind word really do far for other people. You did your part to apologize and retract the endearing nickname. The rest is on them. You did not deserve to be spoken to like that at all. I hope your week will start off better ☀️ I appreciate seeing your posts.

I love the stories about Paul! He struggled so much and kept going! Kinda like telling the world... is that all you got? My favorite verse is in Timothy and was written by Paul to Timothy "For God did not give you a spirit of timidity (fear), but a spirit of power, love, and a sound mind (self-control)." Thank you for your encouragement.

Just popping in on one of my fave threads to remind y’all that YOU ARE VALID. YOU ARE STILL LITTLE EVEN IF YOURE 105! Don’t let anyone tell you any different. 💜

these kiddos are so blessed to have you as a teacher and role model, thank you for the share this morning!

I'm so proud of you! You are what we need in school systems these days! Someone who actually cares and wants our future children to thrive on love and not fear.. To many parents are so caught up in the social media of having a perfect family they actually forget about their family..they would rather the world see them as perfect then be seen as a family with problems or needing help. I am 100 percent for you and I absolutely love your positivity!

You would like an amazing teacher and the world needs more of them like you

The easiest way to figure out between a UT1 and UT2, is by looking at a user's activity in their profile. Fewer posts, lots of followers, and having a personal ad posted, are all very typical. Now you have the knowledge on how to avoid, or at least understand what's going on, should something like this happen again. Glad to have made you giggle~ ♡

That’s exactly it

Ayyyeee….lookie that, Shadow, VOTING BUTTONS! 🫣🤣 Also, I thought it’d be easier to choose when there was only 2….but of course it’s harder! 🙄 Great job, artistes! 😻

It’s kinda like me I am definitely a daddy dom but I have subbed before but I am not a little . Bottom line just be you whatever that is and your good