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So I did a thing. I lurked. I saw. I sipped some tea. And because I saw what I saw, I'd like to state an additional opinion about the overall situation. *Ahem* There seems to be two kinds of users here on this site. User Type 1) Only wants to search for a dynamic partner. Has zero interest in any level of finding friendship by utilizing our community. And may or may not be looking for instant gratification. User Type 2) Is an active member of the community that enjoys socializing outside of just the personal/friend zone sections. I, obviously, fall under UT2. However, it seems to me that the user you interacted with is a UT1. Not saying that there's technically anything wrong with being a UT1, but they're definitely a specific type of *special* in non dynamic social settings. Basically, I'm telling you to not feel bad about this interaction, because it's literally a them problem. The gods forbid if someone reaches out in a non-sexual/partner-seeking way. *eye roll*

Someone doesn’t want to be called sunshine, their prerogative. However, hurt people hurt people, so it sounds as if they were just lashing out. Kindness in any fashion, especially on a site like this, can dredge up all kinds of repressed feelings of self-loathing and hurt. In my opinion, which you can take with a grain of salt obviously as this is the internet, but fuck that noise. It should have stopped simply with “I prefer not to be called sunshine, thank you.” Any further insults or additional venom and drivel spewed following said polite asking to refrain from pet names is garbage. Perhaps THEY don’t feel this is a family or community because they don’t recognize the healthy dynamics we all have with each other. I have a Daddy and he’s on here, but I also have friends I consider family here. Like I’ve mentioned previously on a post, family dynamics can be hard for people and when they see it modeled here through our kind interactions that border on familial familiarity, they may not be receptive of that level of attention. Again, just my opinion, but if you’re comfortable with yourself and how you communicate with people, then do not change. Respect someone asking politely to refrain, but in situations like this, the reaction was excessive and unnecessary. You’re part of this FAMILY here. Do what you feel you must, but just know we are all here for you whenever and however we can be. You are loved and worthy of being loved. 💜

Hi littles, I just wanted to share my bracelet I made yesterday, Daddy will often encourage me with things like colouring time, game time or something crafty, as he knows I love anything crafty or arty. I’ll upload my rainbow loom bands soon. please share your pictures and ideas with me, I’d love to see them 😁 I hope you like it😊 lily.

It's so easy to get caught up in this life, so easy to forget that you are important and that you matter. When daily struggles start coming against you and and even just small little inconveniences can make you feel like you don't matter. All the noisiness inside of our heads, we forget who we are. We forget how to smile, how to laugh, how to even get up and walk outside. And during it all we can't see anything, but it's all a lie. We do matter, you do matter. Someone out there cares for you, you are not alone, and you are so worthy of being loved. Don't let the noises in your head make you doubt yourself. Don't let the distractions of your life outweigh your beauty. Don't ever let someone steal your sunshine. You are so strong, so brave, and so beautiful. I know it seems hard at times, but none of you are really alone. I know you don't know me, but I will be there for you. You will never be a burden, you will never be an inconvenience, your thoughts and feelings are valid. You matter and you matter to me. So please if you feel alone, if you need a friend, if you just need someone to listen my door is always open. It doesn't matter if you're a mommy, a daddy, a master, sub, little or whatever you might be, my door is always open. To me that's what it means to be a mommy, to help others, to show love, show kindness, to show compassion and to show you that you matter and I see you. You're perfect just the way you are and you are so beautiful inside and out. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worth your being loved 💞💝💖💓

My wish is that this poem gives hope to the hopeless and is a ray of light for those still in the dark. 💜 Little inside, living life with innocent eyes, With a terrible childhood, it’s no surprise. Cute, small, tiny, scared, Fighting for life, gasping for air. Why am I like this, this is so unfair, Splintered inside, pain beyond compare. Alone in the dark, I’m right on the verge, When out of the veil, a hand has emerged. You are safe now, a voice calls loud, Grab hold of my hand, I’ll lead you on out. A beacon of hope, in a suit made of flesh, Daddy has come, and now I may rest.

As stated, everyone has the right to request not being called XYZ. And I know you would respect any such request. They do not however have the right to lash out at someone after that request has been made and honored. Just avoid them and put the incident behind you. I personally like putting things like this behind me so they can watch my bum as I happily walk away 😉 . When I joined I was quickly informed that my southern manners needed to be left at the door when logging in, something about not calling an admin ma'am when responding ooops. But I grew up calling everyone sir or ma'am and everyone calls kids babyboy or babygirl where I live. It was a hard habit to break when entering the lifestyle. But in your case of using sunshine I have received no reports nor have I ever noticed you "targeting" any specific group. You use it with everyone equally, unlike the ones I have to address which target only single littles. Which is why I have seen no reason in asking you to refrain from using the non petname version of the word. I won't bash anyone for not feeling the family aspect of our community. I do however feel sad for them that they are not open to letting themselves be a part of it for whatever reasons. As for UT1 and UT2 I will choose a single UT2 over a thousand UT1s any day. I'm not here for instant anything as I prefer a connection with anyone I associate with on any level. Take a deep breath and exhale all that negativity because it isn't a part of who you are and has no hold on you. We are all called to be a light to others and if someone wants to stay in the dark that is their choice. We move on and keep being a beacon for those that are seeking brighter days.

Miss Anna, you have been a beacon of hope for many! When the oceans are dark yours the light house showing the way home, when the oceans are choppy your the anchor keeping people from drifting away! Maybe this person was having an off day? It’s hard to say what some people think, but we here are a community yes, but to me that’s what a community is like, a small family and we look out for each other. That’s all you have ever done, looked out for people! You have everyone’s intentions before your own and you do your best to ensure that everyone is left feeling welcomed and loved! Something everyone is entitled to! (Despite what they think) l beg you not to change! Stay unapologetically you! Some people may not like it but there are more positives than negative peoples I ensure you! as always! Until we meet again!! Remember you are loved, you are cared for and you are a highly respected member of this community!

You are doing nothing wrong. I would not have joined the forum if I hadn’t seen one of your posts, & I wouldn’t have stuck around when I was made to feel uncomfortable that time. My grandparents taught me kindness above all else, “kindness is free to give out, but to the person reserving your kindness it’s value is immeasurable” that’s a motto they lived by, and to be honest the math on that is inarguable. I don’t know who this person is, but, in my experience people often find it hard & scary to accept words offered in kindness and care, if they are only used to words loaded with hurt and hate. I don’t say that to defend or because I think it should change anything, because it does not & I am not. What they did & how they responded was incredibly wrong & hurtful & that bit is on them because we are 100% in charge & responsible for our reactions to things. Don’t let this change you, or bring you down. Don’t let someone bring you into the dark, stay in the light.

Good morning Sunshines, or good afternoon where you might be in this beautiful world! Over the past few days I have noticed so many posts over the same situations. The main one of being not heard, not valued, not seen and not loved. My first thought as a Mommy was where did we as Dom's go wrong? My second thought was how heartbreaking for all these sweet innocent littles and some Dom's to feel this way. Where did we go wrong in this community? When did we solely want our partner to only be seen or heard when it's convenient for us? Yes I understand sometimes people don't mesh, sometimes they don't click and they have to leave. But that doesn't mean the other person loses their value or worth on who they are. As a Mommy I know I am not a perfect fit for every little out there, I talk way too much, I love to dance in the middle of the store and I am about as Dominant as a squirrel on a fence post. (And I get distracted so easily) But that doesn't mean I don't care or see all you beautiful people on here. Or that I don't want my future little to know I need them and I love them. It's so heartbreaking to read what is happening to all of you. The pain is so real and raw I cried so much reading them. None of you are a bother, you do matter, your fears are valid, your worries are not stupid and your health is important. I see you, I hear you, I value you and I care about all of you. On behalf of every Dom on here, we love all of you, we care about you, we want you to succeed and we want to show you how much we need you. Don't give up on us, because we won't ever give up on you. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are so worthy of being loved 💕

For all those interested in the planets and stars, tonight will see an amazing sight in our skies, but only for some of us .... A Lunar Eclipse will happen on the night of 13th/14th March. A Lunar Eclipse happens when the Moon is cast in the Earth's shadow. The result is what is known as a Blood Moon, where the light that hits the Earth's atmosphere is split. Blue light is dispersed by the atmosphere, and red light is refracted through the atmosphere and reaches the Moon. This results in the Moon appearing to glow a red/orange/brown colour at the moment of total eclipse. Unfortunately not everywhere will see a total eclipse. Only the majority of North and South America will see the total eclipse. Europe will see only a partial eclipse, where some of the Moon is in the shadow of the Earth. For those who want to see a total eclipse in Europe, you won't have much longer to wait, as the phenomenon will happen on September 7th this year. Also, you will have to be up late in continental America to see the eclipse. Total eclipse is predicted at 2:26am EDT and will last just over an hour, so there are plenty of opportunities to see it and photograph it. If you want to see the partial eclipse in the UK, you will have to be up early, as it begins to eclipse at 3:57am and maximum of the eclipse in London will be at 6:19am Guide to watching the Lunar eclipse in America .... https://science.nasa.gov/solar-system/moon/what-you-need-to-know-about-the-march-2025-total-lunar-eclipse/ Guide to watching the Lunar Eclipse in the UK .... https://www.rmg.co.uk/stories/topics/lunar-eclipse-guide If you take any photos of it or watch it, I'd love to see and hear your account of it. Below is a photo I took of the lunar eclipse back in 2015 in Europe. Apologies for the quality, I had to shrink it to post here.

Disclaimer: This application is intended as a communication aid, not a replacement for building connection or trust. While it can help facilitate conversations around boundaries, caregiving style, and emotional needs, it is not a guarantee of safety or compatibility. Littles and caregivers are encouraged to use this form mindfully, as part of a larger journey of getting to know one another — not as a shortcut or a checklist. This form is designed to help littles find safe, emotionally mature, and genuinely caring caregivers. Whether you're looking for a serious dynamic or just need help filtering out red flags, this application encourages real connection, healthy boundaries, and kindness. Printable & Fillable Pastel-themed & cute as heck Includes emotional maturity check and red flag questions Let's make the DDLG/CGL space softer, safer, and more full of love ❤️ Download link (Please tell me if it doesn't work): https://drive.google.com/file/d/15LD6esjjGHuX_zLLVUABNk7VdlLswFHS/view?usp=sharing Feel free to use it, share it, or adapt it -- just please don't remove credit as I worked very hard on this! With fluff and love, -MissMaple P.S This is not about exclusion - it's about safety and clarity. Also, I would love to know your thoughts! I'm honestly stressing about it haha

For fun at work... I watch kids have meltdowns and figure out the reason for the behavior, then develop a plan to teach a new behavior.... I know I'm a weird... but it totally brightens my day when a kid completely looses it in my classroom!!! I know what to do with challenging behavior, culturally diverse learners, language learners and random schedule changes... but I can't handle adults who are unable to put the needs of the students above all else during the school day... 🤔 😳 🙄 Give me flying chairs, tables shelves and escape artists running down the hallways any day of the week! Just don't give me a teacher who talks down to me professionally, yells at a child or for heavens sakes threatens a child with... if you don't...... then I'm gonna tell your Mom... Please! I'm the boss in my classroom! I don't raise my voice, I don't threaten, I don't use manipulation. But my students are allowed to have massive, horrendous, hideous, horrible, monstrous meltdowns. Because when they are calm again, I sit with them and say. Hi friend. I love you. I'm so happy you are in my class. Would you like a hug? Do you want to sit with me a minute til you're ready to move on? OK. And we never talk about it again!!😮 Wow forgiveness is so powerful! I'm not saying I've got the best strategy, but I am saying that teaching preschoolers is amazing! It's also not a career for me. It isn't even my passion. It's so much deeper than that. It's like I was born for this, then life really messed with me. You see the world tried to break me, over and over and over again. But every time I got pulverize by homelessness, poverty, abuse (every single kind you think of prolly), neglect, starvation, sickness, social injustice, religious legalism, inadequate Healthcare, poor nutrition, unsafe work standards, inappropriate expectations, and lack of services, someone was there. Maybe it was my 5th grade teacher who really saw me for who I was, not the poor kid with the drunk mother, who babysat every night to buy herself and her siblings shoes and clothes and school supplies. My teacher saw me as smart and fun and gave a beautiful nickname, that she still calls when she subs in my classroom! Or the lunch lady at school who always let me have seconds without paying for them The Grocery Store owner who gave me a job when I moved back and then when he and his wife found out I was pregnant and alone, canceled the debt on my in-store charge account that my ex used without my consent. Then, they bought me 6 months worth of diapers and tons of baby clothes to help make life a little easier, and gave me consistent hours to make childcare easier. Sister Estell who stopped by regularly. She took me to church and fed me every week. I remember her telling me so many positive things, and yelling at my parents 😆 You see when life tries to rob you of love, joy, peace, safety. Remember! Think hard about those moments you did have kindness shown to you. Remember the smiles, the extra support. The moments someone helped you because that right there is what will get you through! It's called resilience and it doesn't have to be big memories. It can be the pharmacy aide who offered to pay for my meds when I couldn't afford them last summer or the medical equipment store who never charged me for the pulse oximeter when I was super sick with Covid, but couldn't be hospitalized without putting my kids in foster care... the people who check on you every day and really do wanna know how you are. Remember them. Know that behavior is communication and how someone treats you is important. Choose good, kind people to surround yourself and build each other up! Life is so hard for each of us, we can only get through this together.

As far as I'm concerned, everybody matters in their own way. Everybody is needed to make this community strong. In this community we've always been a be yourself don't try to change for other people. With people are ut1 or ut2 we should always push people to be themselves and if we're not ourselves how can we even attempt to connect with others? Whether it's just to make friends or potential more. And I do see this as a family slightly dysfunctional at times but what family is completely functional?! With this many people and one small area of course there's going to be people that take things differently than the way the are stated. And I really enjoy being called sunshine. It always makes me smile to see your posts. Been through quite a bit some of us more than others. Sometimes we just have to let go of the pain. Or see somebody to talk about our pain and deeper rooted issues. So much is lost in text versus no more human connections. What they might see might be different than your intentions. Through text you cannot see people's facial expressions hear their tone. That is why whenever something bothers me that I have read from a text or a message I tried it take a few hours or a day to think before I speak. To try to remember to take the time to see things from both sides. I personally have never had a family member take their lives that I was old enough to remember. I have had some close friends that felt like no one was there for them that they were unloved that they had no one to reach out to, even though all of their friends tried it wasn't the right way or the right words. And sometimes it just wouldn't matter. It really depends on who else has an influence. For what the root cause for the destructive mindset. It's hard to be on either side of that fence. Please never stop being yourself that sounds so cliche but it's so true. If you have to change the way you are to make somebody happy that's just lying to yourself. And lying to yourself is detrimental to your mental health. Putting the southern aspects of your personality aside is one thing but changing your positive attitude and greeting to others just for one person. Pain is pain. Whoever this individual is I hope they get the help to properly move forward in a positive manner to get to a point of positive mental health. Luvs to everyone. Everyone here is special and very important to someone and I hope to learn so much more of getting myself to a better place mentally. And so far with a few setbacks here and there this place has helped me so much more. I can talk about things that are more vanilla and yet also not. This place is like a warm safe place in a storm of different emotions and situations in life.

Oh Sweet Mommy, please know that your positive energy and use of Sunshine in your posts, plus your Southern hospitality help get me through my days! I look forward to your thoughts daily and enjoy how you embrace everyone with grace and compassion. ❤️ Your intentions are to support everyone on their journey here, which is the very definition of a kind, nurturing mother in a family. I feel supported and encouraged to be me, by you and others here in a way my own family never has and never will, but it is making me a better person. Reading your insights and the way you care for others helps me know that I can keep growing and improving myself. Please know that when others lash out in anger, it often comes from a place of deep pain within themselves. Perhaps something triggered that person's fear response or deeply held shame messages. Seeing your kindness and genuine love for all of us is sometimes difficult for me, too. In my real life family, when my mother showed kindness or love it was to gain an advantage. We just had to "wait for the other shoe to drop", so to speak. I have worked hard for decades in therapy to accept people at their word, but I am very aware of this ongoing battle in myself. The best thing for me was people to be consistent in their compassion toward me. To continue in their unconditional acceptance, love and positive attitude. It hurt so much to be near them. I had to take breaks, but when I realized they did not change who they are, I could accept that the world was not what I knew. It was so much better! You are a light in the darkness to all of us. You help me to believe that people are good in this world. I see who you are in your messages and I know even in your pain, you are strong, beautiful inside and out, and you are a cherished member of our community, our family.

Hello gorgeous people, so this is to answer @Andriel_Isilien question about how I became who I am today. First I have always loved taking care of others, to help those in need and show them that they matter means so much to me. I never knew what it meant to be truly loved, growing up love wasn't something you received. I remember watching shows were people would hug their parents or be told they were loved. I would sit on my bed and cry because surely someone would love me one day too, or so I thought. My ex's never understood me they hated how clingy or needy I was and they hated me taking care of them. My ex husband would constantly tell me I wasn't his mother to stop waiting on him. But I loved doing that, taking care of him made my heart soar. When he became ill for a few weeks I had to solely take care of him and I was hooked. It was like something was woken up inside of me. Something I never wanted to turn off. It felt amazing to care for someone to show them all my love. But sadly our love story ended in one of violence and tears but that's okay because it made me a stronger person. Then years later I stumbled across a site where I could be a caregiver. I was in awe, I was like this is a real thing? I was hooked, I met my first little and everything was golden until we parted ways. I wasn't Stern or Dominant enough for them so we parted ways. It broke my heart and I just knew that I would never be accepted for me ever again. So I started journaling, I have a journal that I write to my future little. It's about my hopes for us and my dreams. My plan is to find my little and give it to them. But sadly all I found were vanilla men who weren't ideal at all. In my mind I was like this is it, this is my life, to settle for this vanilla lifestyle. Then I typed in date a CGL, I was like surely there will be one site, hopefully? And I found this forum. I was scared, excited, nervous and overwhelmed. I mean was this real? Would I be accepted for being a soft Mommy Dom? Would any littles actually want me for me? So many uncertainties and questions swarmed my head but I was like Anna now is your chance so man up lol And when I made my account I was not expecting such a welcome. I never thought so many of you would welcome me into your lives and treat me like family. It literally brought me to tears. In away this forum gave me my hope back for finding where I belong. Thank you all for your kind words from my previous topic. It meant so much to me, like there is hope for me. That someone will actually want me for being a silly, soft, rambunctious, hyper, submissive Mommy Dom. And even if I never find my forever little, I wouldn't change meeting any of you. You have brought me so much joy over these past few months. You make me realize it's okay to be myself, that I do matter, I am loved and I am worthy of being loved. I'm not crying you are lol Thank you all my sweet Sunshines! For helping me find my place in this beautiful world! Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💞💖💝

Hello, Everyone! 🤗🤗 🐨 I have been colouring quite a bit lately, and it helps with my stress and I feel little when I do it, I noticed their isn’t really a thread here for colouring, or sharing colourings to to. Now that might be because I have trouble putting pictures my self up on the forum so I have learned to resize them on online. Which works of me. I resized my image on this site and made sure to put 500KB. Hope it works for you to! 🥰 https://imageresizer.com/resize/download/67d2ac557fd7e3628e631624

Never forget How far you have come. Everything you have gotten through. All the times you have pushed on even when you felt you couldn't. All the mornings you got out of bed no matter how hard it was. All the times you wanted to give up but you got through another day. Never forget how much strength you have learned and developed along the way. Pooh bear once quoted: You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think And we all know Pooh bear never lies, so never doubt yourselves sweet ones. You are doing wonderful and I am so proud of all of you. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💗 💖💝

I could be wrong, but it sounds to me like you're a human being with your own needs and desires that may not fit into the stereotypical/canonical mold for what most people think of as a Daddy. Labels are just convenient ways of grouping things and people together, and you just happen to be lucky enough to defy labels. That is, in my estimation, a good thing. Maybe there are a few more labels that you can add to your collection, and I am sure there are others who have more knowledge as to what those might be. Just don't doubt yourself. Be who you are. Like what you like. That's what matters.

I had some fun with my flower box this weekend!

The proof is in the thread You are awesome You are respected You are loved There is no other take away.

I've said it before, and I will say it again. You be you, be unapologetically you, and don't change for anyone. You are ne of the kindest and sweetest people I've met, and your posts do nothing but bring people together in this cold uncaring world. If someone doesn't like what you've said that's on them, and while they have every right to tell you if they do or don't like being called something, they have zero right to try to bring you down because of it. The fact they try to talk down about the community too, feels like they're likely someone very hurt, just looking to lash out and spread that pain around, but you do not deserve it. It's hard, but do not try to take it personally, if they really are just a hurt person anyone and everyone could have potentially been on the receiving end of their ire. But the best thing you can do for now, I think, is to understand that it's not you they were mad at, and try your best to move on and continue to be the wonderful person you are. I may not have known you for a long time, but the only thing you've done is make the world a better place by being yourself.

TW: posessiveness and jealousy I climb into his lap, peeking at his screen as he absent mindedly reaches a hand to tousle my hair. I wriggle closer into him, wanting to feel him against my back, wanting his scent to envelop me like a hug. The movement draws a breath from him, maybe accompanied by a small noise from his throat. In the dim glow of his screen, I catch our faint reflections. A princess sitting on her throne, whilst her daddy protectively holds her waist in his comforting and warm hands. Daddy's lap is so inviting and comforting to me. I pull daddy's hands tightly around my tummy and intertwine our fingers. I hate that one day his lap could belong to someone else. I lift his hand up to my lips and kiss each of his fingers slowly. I'm definitely distracting him from his work. I lick the insides of his fingers gently and he squirms a little. It's ticklish. I lift his hand some more and put it on my face. It feels nice. The weight of his hand. My probably ADHD thoughts wonder if I'd be able to recognize his hands if I were blind. I kiss his palm. But the sweet appreciation of daddy's fingers aren't enough to satiate my bitter growing need to possess him in this very moment. My hips shift instinctively, seeking friction, and his fingers tighten at my waist like he already knows where this is heading. The cold light of the screen flickers—an unwelcome reminder that I’m supposed to be letting him work, but I want him. My wiggly butt makes daddy make all sorts of noises and his attention is fully mine. It's not just his attention I want though, it's this lap of his. It's mine. Daddy's hands move all over me, like he's telling me the very same things. That all of me is his. His grip guides my movements, steady and firm, helping me help him. He sounds like he needs a lot of help, his old man wheezing makes me wonder if I should get up and call the ambulance or stay and fulfill his dying wish(this is a joke by the way). Somehow our clothes get off. I don’t remember how, not really. All I remember is how good he felt. How good he told me I felt. And when he sat there, panting, spent—like I had conquered him, like I had claimed what was mine—oh, I felt so good. Especially when he pulled me close, wrapped me in his arms, and murmured against my hair: "My little princess."

Ehemmmm. Hello. I work at a bank. I like helping people and could give a shit about how much money they have - I love my job because I get to protect people from elder financial abuse , the disabled being abused financially , I get to help people save money and build a future for themselves and their families , I get to help people buy their first houses , get their first car loan , to be able to live comfortably. I love to HELP. I love sharing kindness with those around me and spreading smiles and positivity but a lot of people don’t realize how much I actually struggle to be happy. I give away all my happy to everyone else .. but a lot of the senior clients see through me. They see my lonely little broken and cynical heart and they always baffle me with their kindness. I opened up a little bit to one of my senior clients , we’ve bonded over the few times I’ve helped her and her husband. I told her I didn’t have a great childhood , I regret my tattoos , I regret a lot actually. She seemed so dumb founded because she said I turned out so nice. We ended up talking about Hello Kitty because my desk is COVERED in anime and Sanrio things. She told me her daughter has collected Hello Kitty since she was a little girl , and she said she doesn’t even care about them. “My daughter just left them all at my house ! I’m going to ask her if I can give you one of her vintage Hello Kittys.” She smiled and I told her that she really , really , REALLY didn’t have to do that. She waved her hand at my , like “hush your mouth.” So … I hushed up. Lol I’m not gunna argue with an old lady. I saw her and her husband on my lunch today - I was eating my Subway and she walked in with her husband and son and they all smiled and waved. They left me alone tho which I prefer while I’m eating anyways - we just happily acknowledged one another and went about our business. Hours later , she comes into the bank. I call her over and she tells me it was nice seeing me out of the bank - we chit chatted for a moment and she wanted some cash. All 20’s. I didn’t have enough so I had to go to the back vault room to get some more - when I came back out she was sitting all prim and proper and had a shit eating grin on her face…. So I was like do I have a booger ? What is happening why are you looking at me like that ? Why are you smiling all mischievous like ? She giggled and looked over at my calendar (it’s a Kuromi one) and there it was. She snuck a vintage Hello Kitty figure right next to my Kuromi. I gasped and immediately teared up - I asked if I could hug her and she gave me the softest most sweet and warm grandma smile and said , “of course you can honey.” I got up so fast and gave her the biggest bear hug I could without hurting her little old lady body. I literally cried and thanked her over and over again. She said , “my husband loves your pigtails. I used to wear my hair like that before I got old , he says you look just like I did when I was a girl. He wants to adopt you and so do I honey. We’ll be your family.” THE WAY I FUCKIN SOBBED. Ugh. I hate crying. But … it was a good cry. I needed to feel that love and care and I needed to let out a little cry. I am going to keep this Hello Kitty until I’m an old lady .. then I’ll find an orphan like me to give it to. I will pass on this old lady’s legacy of care and love for others. The Hello Kitty is from 1983 - trademarked on the back and everything. She’s a little beat up and loved - but I’m gunna take good care of her. * The picture is before I checked the date on the back … this figure is in fact 42 years old 🥹 The end.

Hello! I put together a little word search if anyone is interested, going forward if you have any words you would like to suggest I will try and do one ever so often and change them up

Hello Sunshines! I wanted to write to you because I have seen so many of you all struggling to find a place to fit in. I read your comments and your posts, it breaks my heart to see you all thinking that no one cares for you or that you will always be alone. The worst is when you all are so hard on yourselves. I wish you could see yourself the way I see you all, perfect, amazing, sweet, caring and full of life. Everyone of you on here are searching for a missing piece of yourself. Rather it be a Daddy, a Mommy, a little, a sub or just friends. You are looking for people who will understand you and see you for who you are. Sunshines, you are seen, I see you, I am so proud of you for getting out of bed today. I am so proud of you for still getting up and going to work. I am extremely proud of you for never giving up. I know sometimes it's a struggle to find the right person to click with, and sometimes you think you met the right person and it fails. But that doesn't mean to give up. No that means keep going, keep trying and don't look back. You are perfect just the way you are, so don't try and change who you are because someone doesn't like you. Don't stop being you, don't stop trying and don't stop reaching for your goals. You are all so amazing, I wish you wouldn't be so hard on yourselves. Take it from me a Mommy, you are all perfect and you are all doing so good so don't give up now. I truly am proud of you all, and I promise it does get better. For those looking for your Littles don't give up they are looking for you as much as you are for them. For the ones searching for a Mommy or Daddy, don't stop looking they need you as much as you need them. And for those who are seeking friends they are seeking to find you as well. You aren't lost, you aren't bad, you do deserve love, you will overcome your battles, you are brave, you are beautiful, you do matter and I do see each and everyone of you. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are so worthy of being loved ❣️ 💖💝💕

I’m not sure how I stumbled across this thread, but I have read through many, many comments from littles who are “older,” let’s say 30’s, who feel like they can’t be in little space anymore simply due to their “current age.” This, I see as not only a problem, but very sad and as a Daddy myself, it weighs heavy on my heart. Age does not define a little - this is why we call you littles! The age regression is the “little part,” so your actual numerical age should not even be a factor. Most littles from what I’ve seen, do not grow out of little space because being a little is part of their identity and who they are. What I do see right now, is that as littles get older, they start to have fear over being able to be little or slip into little space. Being little, is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Being little is something you should be able to embrace, regardless of your actual age because being little is a part of who you are as a person. As a Daddy, I would encourage those who are having these fears to set aside some alone time to have some self reflection and find out what is making you feel this way. If you find that it’s just your actual numerical age, I would encourage you to grow and move past that, as it is not of any importance. What is truly important is to nurture your little self and stay in touch with who you are and not feel like you need to lock your little self away. Think about your little’s feelings…!!! Your little would not like that and they would be very heartbroken… This has been a very tough read for me and I have truly found it very sad. I hope that the littles out there who are struggling, run across this comment and find it encouraging and helpful. My heart goes out to all of you who are struggling with this obstacle. I hope you are able to get back in touch with your little selves and find peace. ☮️ -Axl / BigMeat

Have you ever daydreamed about your happily forever after? You dream of the way your life will look and how your fairy tale ends. I do a lot, I dream about where my life will take me, who my forever will be and how my fairy tale will end. I wonder if any Mommy's or Daddy's feel this way? What about you littles? Do you all daydream about actually finding where you belong? I do a lot and sometimes I wonder if it will really come true or am I throwing pennies in a dry wishing well? I love watching movies where the couple finally find one another, but then it makes me a little sad. Does this ever happen to anyone else? Sometimes at night I sit on my front porch look up at the stars and close my eyes, then I make my wish. A simple wish of finding my happily ever after, it seems silly but it's what I wish for. And when I see a wishing fountain, I love grabbing a penny kissing the back of it, then tossing it into the water. My heart will leap for joy thinking maybe just maybe my wish might come true. I know it's silly and absurd really, but I just want someone who actually wants me. Someone who doesn't care if I'm loud, or talk to much and doesn't mind my weird obsession with gummy bears or dots lol. I want to find where I belong, just like all of you. Sorry for my rant, but it's nice just to say what's on my mind. You all are so amazing and I'm so proud of all of you. Thank you for being my friend. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💓 💕💖💝

Run for the hills.

I am so sorry that someone made you feel like you were in the wrong. That must have been very hurtful to you since you try so hard to make people happy. I don’t live in a place where people use generic pet names or southern hospitality, but I’ve always seen you calling people sunshine as an uplifting gesture of friendship. Obviously people are entitled to their feelings. It’s perfectly okay for them to request you don’t use pet names with them. It’s not okay for that person to hurt you. Obviously I don’t know them and can’t speak on them, but I do know what it’s like to have depression. It can be very hard to hear people say positive things when your brain keeps telling you the opposite. If that person wants to be angry and keep themselves separate from the community here, that’s up to them. I hope that they can climb out of that hole and see you, and the community as a whole, as a place of love and comfort and support. I know that you will respect their wishes, but please please keep being yourself. Do not give anyone the power to dull your sparkle. You are a light to so many people. If you ever need to talk, please feel free to reach out.

When I read your initial post, @MommyDom41, I was angry for a moment on your behalf. How dare someone tell you that your amazingly positive demeanor is inappropriate! Then I took a deep breath and tried to think about this from the unknown person's perspective, and I still don't think they had the right to tell you off for being who you are. I can certainly be sympathetic to whatever wounds they may have that elicited this response on their part, and I could even find it in my heart to try to treat that person gently, there is still no reason to expect that their demands should apply to your interactions with anyone else. It's my perception that kind of behavior is a little too similar to those of the dominant persuasion who take out their perceived shortcomings on others. I have a lot more thoughts about actions and reactions, but I feel it's inappropriate for me to blather on without more direct knowledge of this person and what factors may be affecting what are, to me, overreactions to behavior that--while possibly a trigger for them--come from a place of loving innocence from you. It's one thing to ask to not be called something on an individual basis, but it's quite another to try to control one's behavior because of one's own fear. I'm sorry that happened to you, @MommyDom41, and you can rest assured that, from my perspective at least, you are like a golden ray of sunshine that bathes everyone in loving warmth. Please never stop.

I was little in a semi southern state and was raised in a very respectful home. These words slip out in my everyday life all the time with a smile on my face. I need to edit my posts regularly, too! It's not meant to be offensive, when I regress in my little headspace, it comes out naturally and way more than I intend... I also tend to call people "sweetheart, dear one, buddy, friend, love, and hun out of habit from my job! It helps build a sense of endearment and attachment with my students, but I get in trouble for it because as a teacher, we can only call someone the name on their birth certificate.

Side stepping the point of this thread for a second… hope you don’t mind… but @shadowrider it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one that struggles with this! Growing up it was ingrained in me, it’s been such a hard habit to break (at least in this aspect of my life) & I still feel like I’m being insanely rude sometimes when I don’t call people it. I even check anything I’m sending or posting multiple times to make sure it hasn’t snuck in.

You’ve done nothing wrong ! Some people just enjoy stirring crap up to make themselves feel superior, and they were totally wrong for treating you that way. I find your positive words refreshing, always ! You are a beautiful person, inside and out. Please don't let negative selfish peeps get you down. Its impossible to make everyone happy. Please ! You be You,

Plus as our dear friend @-Soul-pointed out the responses sure seem like family retorts to me . Just another reason you people make me proud

@MommyDom41 off days are okay! What isn’t okay are people trying to extinguish others flames! We YOUR FAMILY here will add logs to your flame, we will stoke your fire and we will protect you from the winds that threaten! we love you! Please never change

Petnames are problematic because of the type of site this is. That's why it's technically against the rules. However, imho, you've been pretty consistent in addressing everyone with the same petname and speech patterns. So, it's rather obvious that it's not done out of you being a creep. I think whoever got mad at you, particularly the way they did, just enjoys being angry and aggressive with others. In a previous thread of yours, I'd warned you against using any kind of southern hospitality here, because some people just won't get it. But now, I strongly suggest continuing to just be yourself. Also, absolutely fuck them for saying shit about our tiny community. If they really don't like it here that much, they can always leave. There's even a handy *delete account* button that they can utilize.

Well everyone is totally titled to their opinion. A lot of us do consider it home here we have members who mostly post daily for years ,but like I said each your own and if people don’t like being called sunshine that’s valid. I personally feel your story and message are inspiring and I say keep being you I enjoy your posts immensely

I was reflect yesterday on my relationship with my Daddy/Boyfriend and how Cgl is part of not just our relationship but also our lives in general. It made me reflect further on how difficult it can be for Caregivers in this space. Caregivers face challenges from often trying to deal with trauma their littles may have been through. Providing reassurance when their little feels they are too demanding or too broken to be loved. Facing misperceptions and accusations when so often all a good Caregiver wants is to love their little. Dealing with being used or ghosted. Often not getting the same support that every human being needs. A lot of Caregivers face stresses that don't get talked about or littles assume Caregivers are or must always be strong. So to all you Caregivers out there let me share with you what I see as so wonderful in all of you, yes my Daddy especially, that either take on thst role or are naturally Care givers at heart. You are a light in the darkness. You are a rock in a sea of emotional turmoil and a safety bar on a rollercoaster of confusion. You provide a safe haven for littles to rest if even only for fleeting moments. You provide assurances that letting go is safe. You provide a mental meadow where carefree happiness and giddiness aren't just ok but are celebrated. You are a gift that your little celebrates even if at times we don't know how to express it. You are strong by showing honesty and vulnerability is not wrong. You guide, you protect and you love deeply and without judgment. You are treasured. You are loved. You are a Caregiver. To littles with Caregivers, remember that when we offer vulnerability our Caregivers accept that gift like a fragile bubble and they guard it fiercely and with joy. To the Caregivers, if you have a little hold them close tonight in a hug that feels like it should never end. If you don't have a little they are out there looking for you. Not everyone is a Caregiver and should be one. To those who are know how much you are treasured not just as a Caregiver but also as a person. To all, never settle. Find the Caregiver or little who deserves your heart who will protect yours as fiercely as you will protect theirs.

Hear hear! 👏 Isolation and feeling alone are the worst. 💔 I appreciate this forum so much for the connections we can make by reaching out to one another.

@-Soul- thank you for your kindness and uplifting words. You're so encouraging don't forget to encourage yourself as well. @SweetLittleDreamer you are so sweet and full of love thank you, don't let others steal you light Sunshine. @megili Sunshine you always bring a smile to my face, never stop dreaming big sweet girl @Dangerously_Well your kindness never goes unnoticed. Thank you for always being there for everyone. @DLduck you always show such compassion to those around you thank you. Don't stop being yourself and showing others how amazing you are. @beanbean you always make everyone feel welcomed and loved never stop being yourself. Thank you for lifting others up but don't forget to lift yourself up as well. @Baby Manda Sunshine you make everyone feel included thank you. You are a rainbow on a cloudy day, don't stop shinning your joy on others. @MasterPhotog your wisdom and comfort for everyone shows how much you care for our community thank you Sir. Don't forget you matter as well and we see you. @.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ you are so sweet thank you for your kind words. Never stop being yourself no matter what. @PigtailPrincess Sunshine you make everyone you meet smile thank you. Everywhere you go you bring joy, remember how much you are loved. @xx-Bear-xx thank you Sunshine I really needed that, it takes a special person to send hugs. Don't forget that Sunshine @DaddyABQ you are always so kind. Never forget how many people count on you. Thank you all of you, your words, your love your compassion has made me realize I'm not alone. Thank you for loving me and accepting me for me, your words, your kindness has touched my heart. Thank you all for showing me it's okay to me. It's okay to not be okay. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💖

I can tell you have so much love to give whatever little is able to get you as a mommy will be very lucky

welcome home Anna, in a round about kinda way your story is similar to mine, even to googling one day looking for a place to belong! I found it here too. while things may not be exactly where you would like them to be at the moment I can assure you you what is meant for you will not pass you! What isn’t will exit stage left! we are all a big family here, we look out for each other and I have made some amazing friends both in this forum and now outside of this forum where we keep in touch daily. you are amazing, you are loved and you are seen! Thank you for being here Soul 💙

Age regression and/or age play definitely aren't a requirement. I just want to say I have noticed a lot of people using age regression and age play interchangeably I'm not sure if this what you have done or if it's just not worded well. Age regression is often an involuntary regression of a person's age usually due to trauma in childhood and is always sfw (at least I have never know anyone to be nsfw, as the person while technically an adult is 100% mentally the age they regress to) While Age play is usually what is involved in kink when a person likes to play as someone who is younger then their biological age which can be either sfw or nsfw While someone can do both (like me) others may have one or the other or neither but still be in DD/lg, it is all about the individual people and how their personal relationship and dynamic work.

Ask about everything, from rules and punishments to expectations and future plans, even wether the relationship will be sexual or not and wether in the future you would like to meet, and even if your goal is to find a daddy to actually move in with or wether it will be online only. Everything must be agreed on by both of you, and nothing should either make you feel uncomfortable or unhappy. Make sure you spend enough time getting to know each other before embarking on any kind of a relationship past friendship, so you have more of an idea if you are suited to each other or not. The number one rule is that you feel safe and cared for. The number two rule is that you can walk away at any time, especially if things don't turn out like you expect them to or how you both agreed it would be. Whatever happens, be safe and read the flag detection section of the forum here .... https://www.ddlgforum.com/forum/115-safety-first-and-flag-detection/

Hello Little Flowerkiss I’m so sorry you’re struggling. I know this is really hard right now, but it’s an excellent learning opportunity and pretty soon you’ll start to feel better. It does take time and it’s okay to be in your feelings right now. Maybe color a picture or watch a movie. Maybe call your friends for a play date if you have any nearby. For me the biggest part of this is putting away my phone so I don’t keep checking it and getting disappointed. Wanting to belong and wanting to feel special is absolutely not too much to want. You should feel that way, and that’s why he’s no longer your daddy. While polyamory is something that exists, it’s not for everyone and should be discussed and agreed upon by all parties. Open communication is absolutely crucial to this kind of relationship. While you may be the little and he may be the Daddy, you still have autonomy. He doesn’t get to do things just because he’s “in charge”. You need to agree to it. You should never let anyone treat you in a way that makes you feel bad, no matter who they are. Don’t rush into finding a Daddy. Make friends first, and get to know people really well before giving them that kind of power. Remember that you are beautiful inside and out. You are special. You deserve the moon and all the stars.

This sounds like love bombing. This is extremely manipulative and can be used to separate you from your family/friends and make you rely on him. You don’t need a Daddy to be little. I understand that being alone is hard, and everyone wants to feel loved. Sometimes it’s better to learn and explore who you are before you get in a relationship. That way you can learn more about yourself, your little, and your limits which will allow you to be better prepared for your future Daddy. Luckily you made it here, where you will find tons of support and resources.

Hi @karan Whether you are a Daddy, little boy, a switch or anything else that is entirely up to you. You can be one, you can be many, but only you can determine who and what you desire to be. There are no set rules and in the end those are your feelings and those are valid. Having the feeling you want to be cared for is nothing strange, I think everyone feels that at times. It doesn't have to mean you are a little boy, but you can determine those feelings the best. The best advice I can give is think about it, talk about it and find someone you trust to eventually experiment with it and see what fits you best.

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