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Exploring kink consensually and healthily.

This advice category you can pose questions you have in regards to the dominant, submissive, switch and/or bdsm life style and/or dynamics, as well as any type of kink play ie. rope play, bondage, toys, etc. 

Members can answer regardless of their experience level and because of this we recommend reading everything with caution and using what you read as advice as opposed to gospel. Ultimately these are opinions based on experience and everyone's experience can vary.

Remember the two most important C's Consent and Communication are always paramount in anything in kink. 

Also remember with all consent comes FRIES:

Freely Given: Consent should be given without pressure, force, or under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

Reversible: You can change your mind about what you want to do at any time -- even if you are in the middle or have done it before.

Informed: You should know exactly what you are giving consent to.  For example, if someone says they are going to use a condom and they don’t, they didn’t have your consent.

Enthusiastic: Someone should be excited to give consent. If someone is not sure, it is always better to wait. Pay attention to body language as well as what the person is saying and how they are saying it.

Specific: Saying yes to one thing does not mean you have said yes to other things. Consent should be given at every step.

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