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Sometimes I have a hard time relating to Littles/Middles who are younger than like 30, so I decided to make this club where older/mature Littles/middles can hang out.
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  2. Liamo

    Hello

    Happy late birthday!!!
  3. BabyPoppy

    Littlespace toys and activities

    I am sooo excited you listed Little People!!!! I have them too and love them! I also have Weebles, same idea, only rounded on the bottom so the wobble, but don't fall down.... I could spend hours!
  4. When I regress, i basically have two ages that I go into. But the majority of the time I'm in my 5 year old headspace. I have toys however for both age levels. 5 & 11. 1. Here are a few of my toys: * Calico Critters ( Sylvania Family) * Hello Kitty (Basically, i just collect these, although i have coloring books and cups with her on/in them) * My Life As ...Dolls (18" dolls) * Barbies * Little People * craft items * Baby Dolls I collect a few things also, cause i like the aesthetic of them. 2. The kind of stuff i would like to add?~ * More Calico Critters and their play sets, * A few more of the MLA Dolls but more so of their clothes and domme furniture * I collect Momoji dolls so would like to collect more of those * 3. Decorations: I'm in the process of redoing my room, there are a few things i need but there are a few things i want to eventually purchase. Such as: * cute rugs * some fairy lights * new curtains * a few new blankies And a few nic knacks I want to also get back into sewing, so I would like to make a few of my clothes for my dolls. I also want to learn to quilt so I can make my own. I hope this isn't to long. Also, these things that i have were collected over time. We didn't just go start buying a lot of things at once. If you're still new and still discovering your little side, buy something in small quantities and see if you like to actually play with it, feel comfortable with it, etc... That way, you're not out of a lot of money. One last thing, my little's like to be read to. If you are alone at the moment, maybe get a few audio children's stories and enjoy being read to that way for now. Coloring and reading are some of my 11 year old self's favorite Pass time. Sorry this is so Looong. I don't get to talk about this stuff that often! 😊
  5. CupcakeSparklies

    Ideas for Building Little Space / Blanket Fort

    What about putting a sheet over a kitchen table and going underneath that. Bring all the plushies, pillows, snacks, etc. The only thing I can think of that might not make it work would be how tall the table is. Could maybe prop it up if needs be??
  6. Lil_K47

    Hello

    @LuckyLilac a great big happy birthday! 🎂🧁🧁 @WolfMoonPrincess there's a lot of great information in the forums especially in the threads of the Littles and caregiver sections. I suggest starting there, read through some posts and anything that resonates with you. And ask questions everyone here is always willing to answer them!
  7. frantastic

    Hello

    I am a 46 year little/ middle from Indiana. I've never been in a dynamic because I didn't really know what was going on with me until a few years ago and I am happily married to a man who loves and understands big me. He doesn't really get little me but, he tries. I just want to find some friends who get little me.
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  8. LuckyLilac

    Hello

    Hi, I just turned 30 today :3
  9. welcome! so happy to have you with us! We have a few clubs you may want to check out. specifically the friend zone. if you like to read, the book club is very active, and a great way to meet new folks! theres also a few fun games a lot of us play, its an easy way to interact in a relaxed environment. If you have any questions, reach out any time 😀
  10. Hi I'm Anna and I just recently discovered my middle/subby side about a year ago now. And I love making friends
  11. i have older kids and im so scared to have little space becuase soo many times im little and theres a knock at the door and im dragged out so fast, i start crying and panicking its so horrible, and i have to woman up and deal with who ever is at my door, some nights i cry because i want and need little space but i cant. my daddy is long distance for probably another year and i miss him so so much. i dont know what to do, im adult all day and i just wish i could have some little time in the evening while on call with daddy 😢
  12. Biscuits1

    Ideas for Building Little Space / Blanket Fort

    what about a large cupboard if you have one? thats what im thinking of doing, i have the same problem my adult self is soo different to my little self, it makes me cringe to see my plushies sometimes its like a battle in my head and i do get really upset about it
  13. hi im from the uk, only just this year exploring little side, its a struggle with 3 kids, a midsize body, recently divorced and so used to being a house wife, but ive been with my daddy a year now, im going through therapy but im scared to bring up ddlg, my therapist did say breifly i should try to heal my inner child once lol. im just looking for older littles to make friends with and get tips for getting into little space etc
  14. CupcakeSparklies

    Littlespace toys and activities

    I love fuzzy socks!! Strawberry shortcake ones sound adorable My bedroom is my little space. I still have to be kinda incognito when it comes to my little stuff. I have my plushies and coloring books out, but I keep my pacifiers and such outta sight. I really really would like a fort of some kind. I have the room for it but I think it would be too conspicuous. I would love to put some fairy lights up. I would love to have a miniature doll house.
  15. BabyPoppy

    Littlespace toys and activities

    I have a kiddo, too, so having a specific space is hard, but I thought maybe my closet... the only other thing is that I rent through an income based program... if they come in to do maintenance, which is allowed on the lease, and tell others what they see, will it compromise my job and my housing status? If I put my stuff in a closed bin/tub then no one knows what I'm doing... I'm very careful with most of my little stuff, the bottles, pacis, sippy, washable, reusable diapers, all get put away, to protect my kiddo and my houding status... I do keep coloring pages and supplies our since I share them, stuffies stay on my bed since my kiddo gives them to me... and soft cute cloths are just part of teaching 4 year olds... I can dive in and play toys with my kids at work or at home super easily, but like @RoseyLittle said by myself feels different... I really want to, but it's different. What I've noticed as my kids get older is that I play with their toys longer than they do... they are ready to move to different toys, but I still want to play with a certain age group of toys... my little age would love to have all the Little People and Weebles spread around the house (3 giant Christmas tree sized totes overflowing without lids)... but my teenager thinks I'm crazy for keeping these toys... I have to be in big space to be interested in hair, make-up, nails, clothes... since my littlespace is normally so smol... So maybe a few questions for everyone... What kinda toys do have/play with in your littlespace? What kinda toys do you want to add to your littlespace? What kinda decorations do you want in your littlespace?
  16. RoseyLittle

    Littlespace toys and activities

    This is so lovely! I think creating yourself a little space sounds like such a great idea - and your idea sounds so pretty and cozy! I have a bin in our bedroom I keep my littles crafts and colouring, and things like sippy cup and bottle for when I regress. I can’t have an open space in the house since we have our two kiddos and Baba who lives with us. I keep Mr. Top my stuffed bear out though. I feel a little shy about playing too when it comes to toys. When with my kiddos I can jump right in and play with them all day! But when it’s just me and I regress I can do arts and crafts easy peasy but find play harder. I just sit there shy and unsure. I was a big tomboy my whole childhood and teen years, I’ve never even owned a doll. And it wasn’t safe to be girly or soft. I feel like while my middles is a total hoodlum my Littles is more that sweet soft side of me I never got to express and had to hide away, and it’s harder to coax that out. I’m hoping to get a doll or some toys and help the walls down enough to come out and play this year. So I really resonated with what you wrote. I can’t be helpful with your question of what others do with little space cause I’m in a similar struggle - but am following along to hear others too!
  17. BabyPoppy

    Littlespace toys and activities

    Ooo! I hsve several bottles, a sippy, baby bowels, spoons, forks and some divided plates... plus I love those baby puffs... especially the sweet potato ones! 🤭🥰
  18. Faelin

    Littlespace toys and activities

    Those sound so fun to play with. I’m jelly! I have a few Monster High dolls that I play with and a lot of stuffies. I just have my stuffies spread out all over the living room. I have a bunch of collectibles displayed as well. I have a verity of sippy cups and bottles too, just chilling in my kitchen.
  19. Sooo I got some fantastic toys for my littlespace time. I feel kinda shy about actually playing with them. I regress sometimes and sometimes not, but still go pretty smol in littlespace... I really wanna play with my toys, but I'm super overwhelmed at the thought... sooo I thought maybe if I shared what I have and invited my little friends to share too, I wouldn't feel so overwhelmed... Ok... *deep breaths * I got 2 small doll houses (I already have a small bunny family to put in the houses) and a small 3 bears to use in the houses... the doll furniture is on it's way.... I already have 2 baby dolls (twins) with bottles and diapers and baby blankets... they each have a new outfit.... I got new stuffies... Hello Kitty and friends. I got a new Barbie doll too! I'm still earning all the prizes from the box, but she has a skirt, purse, sunglasses, sunscreen and another bottle of something...hehehe I have several craft sets, beads, diamond art, perler beads, coloring books, and a recipe book (not for littlespace) I also have lotsa new fuzzy socks strawberry shortcake and pacis! My thoughts are I need a designated space to place and a tub to keep my toys in... I would love to have a permanent space with purple lights and a fluffy rug or cozy chair, but I'm not sure I'm ready yet... What do other littles have for littlespace?
  20. BabyPoppy

    Hello

    Hi! I'm an older little! I'd be happy to chat with you. Poppy
  21. Liamo

    Hello

    You will find plenty of knowledgeable people here. Good luck. Just follow your heart. There is no right or wrong way to live the lifestyle. It is just what works for you 2.
  22. WolfMoonPrincess

    Hello

    Hello, am a 34 year old female. I've alway been interested in some form of a DD/lg relationship. Though never knew the wording for it. I've brought this up to my hubby and he seems willing to explore it. I know for sure that I am a little and my hubby is all for being Daddy. But I'm finding it hard to figure out where we start. Also if possible I'd love to be able to talk to older Littles that maybe I could relate to. Everything is so new for me and my hubby. I've mentioned this to my therapist and she suggested looking at forums. So if anybody is willing to talk I'd be grateful. Thank you for taking the time to read this!
  23. GoodBoyBunny

    Hiiii

    Howdy! I'm new to exploring littlespace. I'm 31 and a single dad.
  24. Itty_Bitty_Kitten

    Hi from a curious kitten

    Hi Jenny70 - it's definitely good to talk to someone around my age, and I would certainly love to chat! I too am not really looking for more than friendship right now either so that's perfect Thanks!
  25. jenny70

    Hi from a curious kitten

    Hello, It is good to see someone around my age, I am 55. I just learned I have middle qualities, I knew I was different from my family. I talked to someone who knew "littles" It described me, so here I am. I hope we can be friends and chat, i am not looking for anything more than friends.
  26. Hi - I didn't realize when I joined the group here I didn't write an introductory post. I just turned 53 a few months ago, and have been exploring the concept of little as well as submissive for maybe the past year. I hadn't thought about the title of Kitten as an older little, but I've always liked the endearment so actually named my inner self that sometime in the past year. I don't know if I'm a little or not, haven't really been able to narrow down to a specific age range or anything, but I do like the idea of it, of letting go of life's headaches sometimes and just playing. Still exploring those options but one of the easiest things I found was bubble soap - it's small, colorful, light, and doesn't raise a lot of questions should a bottle of it be left out. I don't have a caregiver, daddy or dominant, haven't ever had one, so I've been exploring ideas on how to "parent" myself so to speak. Maybe one day I'll find someone, but right now I just want to be able to try and experience some ddlg elements, even on my own. ✨🐈‍⬛
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